the first move

why do men always like women to make the first move my fella of the moment does and the others before them and the thing is i find it a real turn on if the fella makes the first move any of you gals have the same problem or is it just me?

I refuse to do it, and it sets the tone for the whole relationship. plus I love men with balls.

yeah i think my man has got balls somewhere he just has trouble finding them most of the time gets to me coz i feel like i'm doing all the work

I way too shy to do that. But it's cute when a shy guy tries

i'm cursed with shyness myself...and that's mainly cos whenever i try i get rejected or laughed at. That's probably why i don't ask many girls! Do like powerful women tho

You have to pick the right ones. Some really like the nice shy boys

I think a guy does it because sometimes they dont want to make the girl think that alllll they want is sex. If we make the first move it shows we want it just as bad as they do....

just my opinion

yeah thats true, reason i don't go up to girls much is cos i keep thinking well if i go up to a girl they're only going to think i'm interested in one thing...i'm a mess when it comes to relationships tho!

I know, I try so hard not to laugh. But it's so sweet. I can't make the first move, I can flirt, but that's it.

I think they mistake the laughing for something bad. Normally it's a good thing

I hate making the first move, I guess I'm a little old-fashioned

There are ways of pressing buttons, you can kinda make it look like he's making the first move but actually you are initiating it through subtlety.

Taking turns on initiation is fun.

If we are talking first move, dating, first kiss etc. well there are things you can do there too. My fave is dropping something that will spill all over the place so you both get down on hands and knees to pick it all up. Hehehehe brings back memories

I swear we must be twins seperated at birth because we think so much alike on most topics especially ones like this one.

D. and I have been married so long that we pretty much know when it's going to happen , he gives me those little goo goo eyes OMG that still drive me friggin nuts or he'll lick his lips or something and we pretty much flirt with each other.

For instance , this morning I had asked him to wake me up an hour before he had to leave for work so I could have coffee with him. I got up and did'nt take the time to put on a bra and he was a little taken by the revealing shirt I had put on. So he was like , all over me before he went to work, so the way I see it he started it this morning I'll finish it tonight when he gets home . That way we both win, He flattered me this morning and made me feel sexy so I'll return the favor tonight and we'll both be smiling. He's had all day to think about it and I know he's been thinking about it, so he'll be all worked up when he gets home. I've pampered myself today and he'll appriciate that too.

Relationships work a lot better if it's a mutual thing all of us like feeling needed and wanted.

ur ppic is offensive i dont wanna see naked men

Then turn your friggin head!