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maureen92 On November 09, 2008




bongao, Philippines
#1New Post! Sep 14, 2008 @ 13:09:24
'Do men like women to make the first move?'

Most males that answered said that yes they liked a woman to make an initial contact/move so they knew that the female was interested. I think it must be stressful for men to ALWAYS have to make the first move, they do fear the possibility of rejection just like us gals do.

So how can a female be TOO aggressive while showing a guy she is interested? Where is the line to be drawn when making contact...email, phone calls, talking online, through blogs etc. When does a male say 'Hey this sucks, she's doing all the work!' When is it viewed through a males perception that the lady is being too clingy/needy...making too much contact?

I know each man is different, no two are the same so therefore have their own opinions. Having talked to various males some really hate women to make ALL the contact (they feel almost STALKED). Other men love the attention and the more she 'chases' the happier he is.

So men here in the blogs...how do you feel about all this?
Do you like a woman to make the first move, then you take it from there? Or do you like her to be aggressive and make sure you understand she is interested?

Women, how do you approach men? Leave the moves to then? Make a first move yourself?

Just curious to see how people here feel about this.
desperadO On May 04, 2009

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prisoner, United Kingdom
#2New Post! Sep 14, 2008 @ 13:45:25
depends wether i'm drunk or sober
gatechsteph On December 21, 2008




Stockbridge, Georgia
#3New Post! Sep 14, 2008 @ 13:59:17
@desperado Said
depends wether i'm drunk or sober


me too
Kasabian On May 25, 2009

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, United Kingdom
#4New Post! Sep 14, 2008 @ 14:07:00
I like a women who goes out and gets what she wants.
gatechsteph On December 21, 2008




Stockbridge, Georgia
#5New Post! Sep 14, 2008 @ 14:27:37
@kasabian Said
I like a women who goes out and gets what she wants.


You are too far from me for me to do that. lol
diomedes On March 22, 2013




Long Beach, California
#6New Post! Sep 15, 2008 @ 03:26:07
I like her to make the first move, I'll follow through with the rest, in other words with me just start it and I'll finish it.
weaksauce On May 28, 2011




DFW, Texas
#7New Post! Sep 15, 2008 @ 03:30:01
i like women the go out and get it as well. but i have to think are they doing this because she is in to me or does she do this all the time.
backseatcynic On January 19, 2010




Henryetta, Oklahoma
#8New Post! Sep 15, 2008 @ 03:37:46
Absolutely. That's my biggest turn-on. Once a woman asserts herself, I don't have to guess if she likes me. Then it's on.
drgoofymofo On September 12, 2011




Council Bluffs, Iowa
#9New Post! Sep 15, 2008 @ 03:38:10
If she makes the first move it tells a lot about her. It says she is strong and confident. Which to me are some quality's I would like in a women.
weaksauce On May 28, 2011




DFW, Texas
#10New Post! Sep 15, 2008 @ 03:43:09
yeah but it also tells me that she has dont this before. and i ask myself how many other guys has she dont this too as well? a slut just doesnt turn that way in one night. it takes practice.
lets_see On May 17, 2009

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Alabama,
#11New Post! Sep 15, 2008 @ 03:44:25
depends on the guy. certain guys I definitely would make the first move. others they can do all the boring work lol.
drgoofymofo On September 12, 2011




Council Bluffs, Iowa
#12New Post! Sep 15, 2008 @ 03:45:18
You got me there, but you should be able to tell her personality after a while.
lets_see On May 17, 2009

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Alabama,
#13New Post! Sep 15, 2008 @ 03:45:55
I am shy and both times I asserted myself I got turned down lol. so there weaksauce, we aren't ALL sluts.
adrinachrome On April 04, 2023




Fukitall, Arizona
#14New Post! Sep 15, 2008 @ 03:47:41
@weaksauce Said
yeah but it also tells me that she has dont this before. and i ask myself how many other guys has she dont this too as well? a slut just doesnt turn that way in one night. it takes practice.



ahh the old double standard, it must suck to be female.
Still though it IS the 21st century, I dont think it really matters either way if a girl approaches a lot of guys it doesnt mean she's a slut, it means she's not afraid to go after what she wants...
johnnyposter On July 03, 2011




my box behind Arbys, Ohio
#15New Post! Sep 15, 2008 @ 03:50:31
For me, balancing personalities is a must. I tend to be a more shy and submissive person, so it makes me a whole lot more comfortable and confident if the woman shows me first interest, being that tends to be a more dominant personality trait.
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