it so hard to meet people

it seems harder to talk and be friends with guys that aren't gay because even if they are not homophobic they don't want to be seen talking to the guy everyone thinks is gay its like were on the bottom of the social chart and people are afriad of us.So how do you talk to a straight person without freaking them out.

Well if their only problem is what other people think, then I guess the trick would be to hide the fact that you are gay/bi to them..
but then, you are not being who you are, and that is worse for you, in my opinion.

some people are just like that,
especially younger guys.

theres not much you can do, its their issue not yours,
all i can say is you will find people who accept you for who you are.

Be yourself, and if they dont like it, then they're not worth talking to in the first place

Everyone understands one language: Violence

No... don't try that If they're that stupid then they're not worth it.

so i should be myself without telling them my sexuality and first then tell them later on the friendship.

It is a teenage thing. Especially for males. It is like if they are seen talking to the 'gay' guy then everyone will think they are gay too. It doesn't occur to them not to care what others thing, but then again, That is the beauty of High School. They MAY grow out of it one day, one can only hope.