Would you have an affair with a married Person??

Love is something you cant fight, I dont believe. Its very strong. You cant help who you fall for.

The reason I say I couldnt 100% say I wouldnt is because, as explained to Mark, I have met people that I have had an instant connection with, I couldnt get enough of them, like i was addicted to them. If they had of been married, based on how i felt, i dont think it would have mattered.

I would have known that what i was doing was wrong though.

Jon, i was being funny...

I don't know, that's a really difficult question. I don't think I would know unless I was in that situation.

My apologies, it seemed like you wanted serious answers. It's hard to discuss something impartially when the first response to your question gets an immediate judgment.

Only if I was looking for something with no strings attatched. Anyway, 90% of men who have affairs never leave their wives & if they said they would I would break it off with them...

But on the other hand I wouldn't want to be the cause of another person's pain (the other person's significant other) because I know how it feels when you find out the person your with has been unfaithful. I wouldn't want to put that person in a position like that, it sucks.

It is, its just i was on the phone when i replied and really could no more than silly with my answer...

I have done in the past and it's a situation I'd try avoid getting into again.

I wouldn't...again. I was marreid once before and while separated I dated another man. It was messy and stupid, led to nothing but him getting hurt. I learned my lesson. Even if you?re only technically still in a relationship (married or seriously dating) best to stay away from any other romantic involvement until the previous relationship is completely done and over.

Heres my take on this...The question is could you have an affair.. i have said nothing about love.. to consenting adults can have sex withut being "in love" so sorry if you thought that..

I seriously think that if your married you are commited to someone not just emotionally but legally.. which means that the person your involved with has commited them selve finacially as well as emotionally to another.

You got to understand that men and women in a marrigdge may have issues and problems and have "fun" with another person, but more than likely they are using you for what they want.. To have a relationship with someone who is married is in my opinion stupid as well as all the shades of wrong. And if you follow said affair to the point of love.. then get ready to be hurt.. bad...

Once a cheat.. always a cheat.

I'm not saying that they necessarily have to be in love, but if they're married and have no intention of getting divorced theres something in that marriage that is keeping them there...

Normally money.. or children.. or even ease.

i would y not cant see nothin genst it as long as it was 1nc and she was worth it

you made it sound like it would be for each other. Thats not true. Kids, money, cnovinience, house etc etc take your pic. All reasons why two people may not get divorced...doesnt mean they are happy, in love or actually show any commitment to each other.

That's absolutely, 100% false.

sorry i didnt mean to make it sound like they were stil in love etc etc, but I don't think getting involved in that situation is going to be a good idea, and like mark said I wasn't thinking about falling in love with a married person but starting an affair.