@someone_else Said
I'm going to label you right now. You are extraordinarily pessimistic. But, what if you're not? Are you going to be pessimistic because I said you were? Have I somehow made you conform to a lie?
Is a 'label' always a lie?
What if a 'label' (since you have made it such a broad definition) builds up a person's self confidence. It doesn't change who they were, it just makes them aware that other people noticed. So, they take a chance that they wouldn't have taken without that encouragement and something wonderful comes out of it - a promotion, a boyfriend/girlfriend, some kind of fame - how is that negative? That person never falsely identified themself.
No, no, no, no. What you're doing here is a whole other argument. Whether this is good or bad is not the point of discussion here. What we're discussing here is whether this is bulls*** or truth, and so far you're on the side of truth (more or less) and I'm on the side of bulls*** (more or less). Let me clarify: A label is essentially a lie, yes, because it does not describe what type of person you are. The type of person you are is indescribable and that is the core of your individuality. If you describe me as pessimistic, I cannot BE pessimistic and I CANNOT NOT BE pessimistic. What I am is what I am and that is me. If you were to think of me as pessimistic, the only thing that would bring about that thought would be my actions that you've observed. But all you have observed are my actions right now. All you have observed are a few minutes (or hours, whatever) of me, and WHAT I AM might be different tomorrow, the day after that, or the day after that.