step families are harder than normal families

are step families harder to please do you try harder just to please your real mum or dad

i thin k u double posted this topic mate lol

Thanks mate, i did try posting it earlier, but for some reason my browser kept locking up, so i tried in a different forum, it must of let me have the last one as well!

I have a step dad and i dont try harder i think he is a great stepdad, I mean we all have our blood mum and dad but even some real parents are bad with there kids, 3 of my kids as you know have there stepdad who i am with now but they were all happy as there real dad didnt want to know them, so at the end of the day I would say stepdads are great and if you love them then you dont need to even try harder just be yourself