What makes the West (Conservative and Nationalists the most) believe that
Democracy is such a fool-proof and perfect system of government? Add onto
this that they appear to believe in democracy and a right to say what you believe so
much that they'll force it onto other cultures.
Democracy is something that works fantastically in theory but in practice
relies on handing more power to the powerful and less to the underdogs
(Somewhat defeating the purpose of democracy - power to the masses!). In a
country like, say, Iraq, where the powerful can throw as much as they want
around (Money, resources and even human lives), who do you think will
benefit from installing democracy? Who do you think will fight, claw, tooth
and blackmail for a spot of power?
At the end of the day, democracy isn't going to help a struggling country.
However, aid and support from countries with no political agendas (Say oil in
Indonesia being the incentive to aid by Australia) and military action to quell violent
groups would be quite a different story.
Installing democracy in countries during contemporary times has very rarely
succeeded (African states and Cambodia, for example). However, in situations
where there are armed rebels attacking civilians, American help is definitely
needed! There should be no question that, as one human to another, we
should help out our brothers and sisters in need.
Have a look through history where America has decided that helping a
particular cause was 'no longer their problem'. Rwanda, early 1990's.
800,000 Tutsi's were butchered to death. Somalia, early 1990's, America
decided to withdraw it's support and immediately 8,000 men, women and
children were massacred. Haiti, early 1990's, the UN and US pull out due to over-stress
and instantly Macoutes swoop down and execute all the informants who were promised
freedom and safety by western forces. But no, that shouldn't be their problem!
Without Western influence, these people died and will die. With Western influence, we can
push the violent and malicious people out of the worries of day to day civilians.
None of this requires the supposed superiority of democracy. As long as the
people are fed, have water and are open to opportunity (Something
democratic countries lack as much as communist, monarchal or anarchistic
societies) there should be no need for any discussion of a change of system of
government.
This 'answer-all' ideology you've associated with democracy is incredibly
misleading and unrealistic. Democracy does not solve problems within societies. They
will continue to exist within a democratic society.