All about girls and women

can we talk about both?

Most women or girls are perfectly able to smell out a nonce on the internet.

Its like completely obvious to us.

I am a woman.
I like cack.

My dad said that Wilt Chamberlain slept with a lot of girls and women.

I'll bet it was because he was so tall.

I like people to let nature express herself, as cedar tall and slender; although at just over 6 foot tall I'd like to be a tad shorter. Once hair is shaved, so I'm advised, it grows thicker and darker so best never to start. Better regular showers than perfumes and deoderants that might irritate the skin. So hair where hair usually grows. Wear it with pride! Old age and baldness come too soon. Also to let natural greying grow with no coloring is best in my 'humble' opinion.

really there ARE

well i went to the beach with my mate and his wife and i saw something far scarier than armpit hair. she had hair poking out her bikinis. It was the worst thing ever.

Worse than nuclear war? Worse than war? Worse than em...swineflu?

You're right, that is scary!

Im going to respond to this aagain, and for the final time.

Well, I'm a man, and I like women with brains - Yes I can comprehend that.

Does it really matter if women are visually appealing or not? - Well yes do we not choose who we spend time with.

All they want to do is to just be themselves, do whatever makes them happy, and possibly get a partner who genuinely cares about them. - None is stopping them from doing that, but there is no obligation from man.

Woman can reject man, so why cant man reject woman?

I admit I like visually appealing women, as I tend to see them first, I cant read their minds, then I get to know them.

I just don't get why this is so hard for a lot of guys to comprehend - No I cant comprehend your attitude either. Rejction happens. Why is it acceptable for a man to be rejected, but you have such an issue if a woman is rejected. Isnt a man allowed to see who he wants to see?

So you discriminate against women that aren't smart enough.

You say, "All they want to do is to just be themselves, do whatever makes them happy, and possibly get a partner who genuinely cares about them."

But, you don't really mean it.

If they don't have brains you aren't going to like them...you know something, when it comes to pretty girls, dumb girls and dumb girls that are pretty "All they want to do is to just be themselves, do whatever makes them happy, and possibly get a partner who genuinely cares about them."




Because guys don't "want to just be themselves, do whatever makes them happy, and possibly get a partner who genuinely cares about them."

Why yes, sir, it does matter, and women like guys who are visually appealing as well. If you say you don't, you are lying, simply put. Or in denial, which is the same thing. Or gay.

There is nothing wrong with that, either, as it is a natural part of the attraction between opposite sexes. It doesn't mean that is the ONLY thing we guys look for though. Personally I like that my wife has brains in addition to looks. And is sweet, caring, loyal, loving, affectionate, and a host of other things. She is everything I have always wanted and looked for in a mate. I try to be the same to her in all that as well.

Who are you to judge what a guy wants in a woman? Speak for yourself only and shut up. The only wrong thing is to force a woman to conform to what a guy wants. But it is not wrong for a guy to look for a woman who has those traits to begin with and show a lack of interest towards those who do not. In fact, the latter is strongly encouraged if a long lasting and happy relationship is the goal.

What you find distasteful is the natural by product of the latter. Girls want certain men and see that those men are attracted to only certain types, and, therefore, conform themselves into being those types. That is not the fault of men, though, as nobody is forcing the women to do this.

Not being funny, I have only known one guy like that. And he wasnt exactly going anywhere in life. That said, he appeared super happy all the time. Never could figure it out.

Point A) Want to be Myself

Never understood what this really means, other than not pretending to be something your not, ie saying your a millionare when you are not.

Do Whatever makes them happy.

Im sure injecting heroin would make me happy. Personally I like to do what is in line with my goals. Then knowing Im on track to becoming the person I want to be, I am happy.

Partner who genuinely cares about them.

Personally Id like to have an Attractive Partner who genuinely cares about me.

Of course I cant speak about every man (or woman) as people are not all the same. But thats me.

By following those guide lines, then yes I suppose I could say Im just being myself (really despise that cliche'd phrase).

If a man is nervous and insecure. The last advice I would give him is "Just Be Yourself". He would have to fake it until he becomes it by working on himself. So yeah, I really hate that cliche. As I have said before it is the sort of crap I recieved when I was younger. If someone had just said

A) Your socially anxious
B) Your a yes man
C) Your fat

I would of had something to go on. But instead I was told "Just Be Yourself". But i guess I have myself to blame for listening to that advice when I was younger.

Sorry, its the main rant of my life, reciving that advice and believing it.

I agree with you totally there.

Now you know 2...granted you don't really "know" me.

But, that is exactly what I have always wanted and what I have.... to just be myself, do whatever makes me happy, and possibly get a partner who genuinely cares about them.

to be oneself.... as in not just following the crowd blindly. If you want to follow the crowd, go for it. If you want to not follow the crowd, go for it. if being part of the crowd is what you are, embrace it.

to do whatever makes one happy....why would ever do anything else? OK...because of survival needs, we periodically have to work for a living and perhaps do work that we do not love, but aside from that, why would you ever do anything that didn't make you happy? Oh... maybe to please someone else, like say a loved one.

possibly get a partner who genuinely cares about oneself...I don't have any statistics to back me up, but I bet that the vast majority of people want companionship.