Bi. You heard me right

Charlemagne is right.. some people are terrified to the point where they wouldn't even be willing to admit it to themselves.

It's one of those things that normally rational people can completely deny.

But, at the end of the day, who cares as long as you're happy and nobody is getting hurt?

its psychological

most sexual opinions are discussen within the MEN groups and they consider lesbians hotter... which should be obvious when theyre str8

Then again, some people just aren't the least bit into their own gender.

It's the same thing with lesbian and gays.

Most of the time, this is the homophobic male POV:

"OMG f***ing lesbian action is so hotttt man!"

"You're gay? Eww you f***ing homo faggot, go to hell!"

My husband is bi and I'm totally understanding. He would NEVER cheat on me so it doesn't bother me in the slightest. He the nicest and kindest person I've ever met. I've dated a lot of straight men, and my husband is 10 times the man they'll ever be.

I just don't get why you have to go into every single thread and "announce" how straight you are. Why not just make it your signature?

Something like, "I'm straight, and everyone else is wrong", or "I'm straight and if you're not you're sick"..

It would save you a lot of typing.

I once thought I was bisexual for a few hours, then I realised I was actually just straight. For some reason, I was slightly disappointed

I like boobies.. but yeah I would never go south of the equator

Watch porn at all?

I'm not sure that I agree, personally. I guess it depends on what you call a 'little bit bi'. For example, I can appreciate that a women is sexy, I can appreciate she is beautiful, but I have never wanted to sleep with a woman.

Also, most gay people can appreciate attractiveness in someone of the opposite sex, but would genuinely struggle to strike an attraction to someone of the opposite sex.

I strongly agree that people shouldn't classify or label themselves. We are what we are - and where-ever we find ourselves on the sexual spectrum, we are all entitled to as much happiness as we can possibly find in this world.

Desperate much?

Watching porn would not classify anyone as Bi anyway.

Boxer, let's be fair here. You don't announce that you are gay in all of your posts, but you do in most.

You are gay and proud to be so. More power to you.

I don't see what is offensive about claiming to be straight. It's unfashionable to do so these days I know....but last time I checked, it was still the only sexuality I could lay claim to.

I'm happy to support gay and bi people until the cows come home here. I have male gay friends and female lesbian friends. Where there is a suggestion that I don't understand my own sexuality, though, I get a tad annoyed.

Personally, I think all men have loved another man sometime in their life. Some men may be confused with this feeling because we are taught not to show affection or feelings because it would appear weak or worse yet, homosexual tendencies. That is not true.

So, you've never cared for another man, ever, not even in a way of admiration or even within friendship?

Or how about acknowledging another man as attractive?

These are all fair and normal homosexual tendencies that a straight man can see, feel, or have without being gay in any way.