@IndieMonet727 Said
I think life is telling me to date only facially specific men!

It seems like I only have a good time/have things in common with, are those guys. And they really like me too! Its just hard for me to be....well...sexually attracted to them. But romantically, I'm all theirs!

I went out on a date with a guy from OKCupid last night. First time I have ever been out with a guy that I have met online that I did NOT message/text/phone for over a month. It was more like, 3 days worth of messaging on OKCupid. Big mistake. But he seemed none serial killer-ish, so I gave him a chance.

He was nice enough. But really didn't have anything in common, and he seemed to fail at conversing. I felt like somehow I had been given the job of keeping up the chitchat, and I had to keep it going, at all costs. And he wasn't making it easy for me. Short, monosyllable answers, that never really answered my questions, so therefor, I really didn't have any clue about who this person was. By the mid point of the date, I just wanted to slam my forehead repeatedly against the table, it was so painful.

I noticed....that certain men that look a certain way.....generally are....as dull as a box of rusty, used, pissed on nails.
Its like they have no LIFE inside of them.
The man I was out with last night, is what our media infused society would call attractive. Six pack, bulging biceps, great smile, good hair, dressed well, he even SMELLED good. Not what I usually go out with!


And yet, all that fancy packaging....for nothing.

I have begun to reflect, and have come to the conclusion that the guys I was the most happiest with, a lot of people wouldn't give a second glance to. They had captured my heart in their unique individual ways, and THATS what I should be looking for. Yes, they may not necessarily had captured my LOINS, but.... whats more enriching, hot sweaty sex, or hours of laughing and verbal stimulation with someone who really does get me, and I get them, and feel the most myself with?


I guess looks really DO matter.

@IndieMonet727 Said
I think life is telling me to date only facially specific men!

It seems like I only have a good time/have things in common with, are those guys. And they really like me too! Its just hard for me to be....well...sexually attracted to them. But romantically, I'm all theirs!

I went out on a date with a guy from OKCupid last night. First time I have ever been out with a guy that I have met online that I did NOT message/text/phone for over a month. It was more like, 3 days worth of messaging on OKCupid. Big mistake. But he seemed none serial killer-ish, so I gave him a chance.

He was nice enough. But really didn't have anything in common, and he seemed to fail at conversing. I felt like somehow I had been given the job of keeping up the chitchat, and I had to keep it going, at all costs. And he wasn't making it easy for me. Short, monosyllable answers, that never really answered my questions, so therefor, I really didn't have any clue about who this person was. By the mid point of the date, I just wanted to slam my forehead repeatedly against the table, it was so painful.

I noticed....that certain men that look a certain way.....generally are....as dull as a box of rusty, used, pissed on nails.
Its like they have no LIFE inside of them.
The man I was out with last night, is what our media infused society would call attractive. Six pack, bulging biceps, great smile, good hair, dressed well, he even SMELLED good. Not what I usually go out with!


And yet, all that fancy packaging....for nothing.

I have begun to reflect, and have come to the conclusion that the guys I was the most happiest with, a lot of people wouldn't give a second glance to. They had captured my heart in their unique individual ways, and THATS what I should be looking for. Yes, they may not necessarily had captured my LOINS, but.... whats more enriching, hot sweaty sex, or hours of laughing and verbal stimulation with someone who really does get me, and I get them, and feel the most myself with?


I guess looks really DO matter.

@DiscordTiger Said

Is facially specific really what you mean to say because I so don't understand. Luke only men with the same expression?

Every other way I can think of facial just seems out of place.

@Electric_Banana Said

The trail is merely a path of Lil' Debbie Snack Crackers leading up Satan's a*****e.

@IndieMonet727 Said

That is my way of politely saying, someone who is not what most people would call attractive.