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No. No no no no no.
I want to get OUT of the south, not go further IN to it.
When I think of Alabama, the images that are conjured are not too positive. I don't want to spend any part of my life there. Ever.
But my boyfriend is moving there soon. And he wants me to come down with him, leave WSU, enroll in to the university in Mobile, and we'll move in together. He told me not to just immediately diss the idea, and I said I wouldn't. But I already have. Lol.
And again, last night, he brought it up. I just kind've nodded. :-/
I can't do it, I'm sorry. Nope. | |
someone_else_again
Really. Not a dude.
| Do yourself a favor and stop nodding. 
I don't want to be rude or anything, I think you have a good head on your shoulders but if you start doing things you don't want to do just to make your boyfriend happy, you'll likely regret it in the long run. That by itself isn't so bad...it just has a great potential to affect your feelings towards him. |
IndieMonet727
| @IndieMonet727 Said  No. No no no no no.
I want to get OUT of the south, not go further IN to it.
When I think of Alabama, the images that are conjured are not too positive. I don't want to spend any part of my life there. Ever.
But my boyfriend is moving there soon. And he wants me to come down with him, leave WSU, enroll in to the university in Mobile, and we'll move in together. He told me not to just immediately diss the idea, and I said I wouldn't. But I already have. Lol.
And again, last night, he brought it up. I just kind've nodded. :-/
I can't do it, I'm sorry. Nope.
I'm always doing things for people that I don't want to do Its a bit of a problem. Friends, family. I just think its my way of showing them I'm there for them, and that I care. Even if it makes me uncomfortable.
But this is my life he wants me to uproot. I was so so stoked that I got into WSU. I don't know nothing about the uni he wants me to go to. I'm not doing it. I guess we're just going to have to be a long distance relationship until school is over for both of us |
someone_else_again
Really. Not a dude.
| @IndieMonet727 Said
I'm always doing things for people that I don't want to do Its a bit of a problem. Friends, family. I just think its my way of showing them I'm there for them, and that I care. Even if it makes me uncomfortable.
My husband is the same way. All I can say is, if it makes you resentful, stop. Especially if it makes you resentful towards the person you're doing things for. I'm sure they'd rather you say no and feel okay than to say yes and hate them or yourself for it. They care about you, too.
@IndieMonet727 Said
But this is my life he wants me to uproot. I was so so stoked that I got into WSU. I don't know nothing about the uni he wants me to go to. I'm not doing it. I guess we're just going to have to be a long distance relationship until school is over for both of us
I think that's probably a wise decision. How long distance is that? My geography is horrid.  |
IndieMonet727
| @IndieMonet727 Said No. No no no no no.
I want to get OUT of the south, not go further IN to it.
When I think of Alabama, the images that are conjured are not too positive. I don't want to spend any part of my life there. Ever.
But my boyfriend is moving there soon. And he wants me to come down with him, leave WSU, enroll in to the university in Mobile, and we'll move in together. He told me not to just immediately diss the idea, and I said I wouldn't. But I already have. Lol.
And again, last night, he brought it up. I just kind've nodded. :-/
I can't do it, I'm sorry. Nope.
It does make me a little resentful, because it sometimes gets to the point where I feel like I HAVE to do it. But that is something I'm working on. I'm practicing saying no more often.
From Pullman to Mobile, its 2550 miles. A day and 14 hour drive. Thats insanity. o.O |
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Feeling a tiny teeny bit of pressure, here.
July 18, 2013 @ 08:30:18 pm
