what do girls look for in guys???

just wondering??? what do you girls look for in us guys??

um i like funny people.....

Honesty, loyalty, and understanding.

It's different for other girls, but as for myself I appreciate someone who is true to himself. I generally go for the overall good guy, the nice guy, the one who is always there for me, willing to listen, offer advice, or just give a hug when needed. Kind, sweet, considerate, you know, all the "good" characteristics.

Well it depends on how old the girl is.

That changes through life!

A 16, 22, 33, year old will have VERY different wants and needs and will all be attracted to different things.

The best advice is to never be what a girl likes.

Be yourself and wait for that lady who likes you just the way you are!!

Sense of humor doesn't hurt either

That IS very good advice.

i like someone with a good sense of humor who is a nice guy. ive been with a lot of jerks and appreciate a genuinely nice guy. thats another thing they have to be real. dont be afraid to be yourself. i like guys who arent stuck up and think that being shy is attractive, lol. *winks at bandylank*

A great Heart dont matter about looks as you can be the best looker but have a bad heart, looks help some but i know my friend went for looks and he beat her alot,

that happened to me as well. i used to date a certain type of guy, with a certain look. well, i thought id found the perfect guy. mind you he was nice to begin with. we lived together and he started drinking a lot. got drunk and beat me one night, needless to say i dont base my relationships on looks anymore

Good sense of humour, good morals, being confident but not cocky, being caring and affectionate. Not being affraid to show their emotions is always good. Be friendly and considerate and honest. Not always trying to be the "big man" but just being themselves. Not somebody who is constantly out to impress the people around them. Somebody who doesn't have to be the hardest, smartest or be able to drink the most. A genuine person who is themselves and not a projection of what they think others want them to be.

What do I go for....

Someone kind, caring, understanding, funny, intelligent, good looking (yes I can be shallow, but you have to be attracted right?)

Most of all someone I can open up to and feel like I can trust with all my heart... who will tell me how he feels and talk to me... who will give me a hug when I feel lonely, make me laugh when I'm sad... but who I too can do all this for... it can't be a one way thing...

I wanna meet someone I would die for... who I would sacrifice my happiness for... because that person would be special

Yup that too

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