@dragonpoet Said Which may be falling apart completely, i am beginning to think, most times I think we are like roomates instead of a married couple.
i think in that case concentrating on your sex life as the main problem isn't the way to go.
though a bit more adventure can never hurt, like dressing up and stuff.
but in any case, the way i see it is that reforming a personal bond if the first step towards being happy together, the sex comes naturally from that.
unless there's a physical reason you can't perform, which can cause alot of relationship problems, so i guess that works in reverse