@bravo_zulu Said You've never said things out of frustration that you never meant?
that doesnt justify the rascist statement a person makes.
otherwise, alot of people would get away with rascism. KKK acts out of frustration to.
and in this issue, it doesnt mather if u mean it or not. U cant just say a rascist statement, and just say that u didnt mean it, and get away with it.
it doesnt sounds right, making a rascist statement in a frustrated atmosphere, and then just say u didnt mean it... no offence, but that is a very dumb thing to say. If u hurt a person deep, and then say u didnt mean it, is like ... "wtf? now im supposed to forget everything and smile to u, just because u said u didnt mean it?"
Maybe lily just realized that she has a certain level of rascism, and from the reaction in this post, i can really see that she isnt happy with it. And i also think lily is really dissapointed in herself that she reacted like this.
with a little logic and some thinking, she can change this.
best thing she can do is, to speak face-to-face with the involved guy. And explain to him that she is really really really sorry for making a rascist statement. That she realized what effect a rascist statement can unchain. That she is sorry for the wrong reaction in this situation. And that it was a wrong statement to make. U said it, but after u saw what it unchained, u dont agree with the statement u made. Not because u are afraid of the reaction he made, but just because it was wrong.
if im not wrong, this guy is muslim?