ummmm..... not really sure what to say?

ummm...for the past few days I have been struggling with the issue of bi-sexuality, I have no problem with it or homosexuality, but I always figured that I was straight and had never considered otherwise. But lately I have been feeling slightly odd and having strange dreams, I have had dreams about guys before, but now I have started having some dreams about girls too and I'm a bit confused as to whether I am bi-sexual or not, I would appreciate some tips on what some ways to tell are. with christmas coming up I have lot's of relatives and all that crap coming up and this is really more stress than I need, I already have a shrink as it is.

Most people have bi sexual dreams, its perfectly natural, adn during adolesence its perfectly normal to be attracted to the opposite sex.
And vincent valentines a GIRL!!!!

No he's not!! take that back, *cuddles vincent* poor poor vinceent pay no attention to those meanies.

in any case I just wandered if I would be considered bi-sexual, I don't know if it's appropriate to say or not, but I've had fantasies about at least one a my friends who is a girl and I know is Bi. I'll probably just end up talking to my brother about this, but he's straight completely and although he would be understanding I don't know how helpful he'd be and my parents would flip out if I tried to talk to them.

You're still young, so many things are happening, what with hormones and those can do all kinds of strange things to you. You just need some more time to figure things out and sort through all your feelings before you decide whether this is what you are or not

Yeah its normal for your age, hell its normal for any age! Try not to label yourself so young, just wait and see, and when you meet a special person, you will know whether you are sexually attracted or not.

Sexual attraction has no hard and fast rules, just be yourself at the end of the day.

Christ on a bike Mate. You are going through more body changes right now than you would believe possible. It's not possible to 'Pigeon Hole' yerself. Just be happy inside yer skin pal. If you feel an emotion to either sex, then I say, go with yer own flow.
Early days Hun.

yeah what she said!!! Great advice.

Here's a question that should temporarily solve most of your issues:

Are you attracted to any of the girls at school? Not as friends, but attracted in a sense that you want to do things to them?

it happens to me too! i hava liked girl all my life, but about 3 years ago i started having erotic or romantic dreams with men, that's why now i'm almost complete sure that i'm bi

teehee I'm rather secure in the fact that I'm bi now and it isn't that big a deal.
lol one of my best friends, liz, asked me out a week or two ago, I said yes and things have been going really well. My friends were very supportive and my brother said "my little sister going out with a girl, I'm so proud" I think he meant it too. Anyway there's no freakin way I'm telling my parents, they'd have my head on a platter for that. (crazy uber religious fundy types *shivers*)