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dama




bridgewater, New Jersey
#1New Post! Sep 16, 2008 @ 18:05:36
Im 43 years old and unhappily married for 18 years. Very often, I am approached by men sometimes 10 and even 15 years younger. I never considered the idea of having an affair with anyone, specially, younger men until I recently met a 31 year old at a party. We danced couple of songs, he wanted my number, told me he was very attracted to me but I did't let anything happend between us even thought the attraction was mutual. Now, I can't stop thinkink of him and want to see him again badly. What in the world is happening to me, Is this a midlife crisis? Why would a guy go after a woman 12 years older?
On September 20, 2008
katzeyez

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, Canada
#2New Post! Sep 16, 2008 @ 18:10:11
Why not? Still got it!
On September 17, 2008
loveis
brat-inella


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In the mirror,
#3New Post! Sep 16, 2008 @ 18:11:11
I don't know, it happens to me all the time too, and with all races..
Just take it for the compliment it is, and enjoy it.

Or wait for him to call, and go out with him.
What could it hurt?
On January 15, 2010
DragonLover
Perverted and Proud





In his heart, United Kingdom
#4New Post! Sep 16, 2008 @ 18:12:15
Experience?? Maybe the fact that the women his own age he finds too immature?

My boyfriend is a lot younger than me and I couldn't be happier. His family all support us completely, its my family that have the problem with it but sometimes you need to do something for yourself and not worry about what other people think. If you think this man can make you happy then go for it
On July 05, 2011
BeTTyBeLL
made just right





Kosciusko, Mississippi
#5New Post! Sep 16, 2008 @ 18:14:11
@dama Said
Im 43 years old and unhappily married for 18 years. Very often, I am approached by men sometimes 10 and even 15 years younger. I never considered the idea of having an affair with anyone, specially, younger men until I recently met a 31 year old at a party. We danced couple of songs, he wanted my number, told me he was very attracted to me but I did't let anything happend between us even thought the attraction was mutual. Now, I can't stop thinkink of him and want to see him again badly. What in the world is happening to me, Is this a midlife crisis? Why would a guy go after a woman 12 years older?



Men have always been turned on by older woman, think about it like this, you know what you want, you probably are not afraid to ask for it like you want it, you more than likely carry yourself quite well, you are finacialy stable, or should be at age 43 ( not that is what the younger man wants, but it shows you can take care of yourself) the fact that you can take of yourself, is well, HOT...need I continue?
On November 28, 2010
chaski
Stalker





Tree at Floydgirrl's Window,
#7New Post! Sep 16, 2008 @ 18:16:11
@dama Said
Im 43 years old and unhappily married for 18 years. Very often, I am approached by men sometimes 10 and even 15 years younger. I never considered the idea of having an affair with anyone, specially, younger men until I recently met a 31 year old at a party. We danced couple of songs, he wanted my number, told me he was very attracted to me but I did't let anything happend between us even thought the attraction was mutual. Now, I can't stop thinkink of him and want to see him again badly. What in the world is happening to me, Is this a midlife crisis? Why would a guy go after a woman 12 years older?


Maybe you are (or appear to be) attractive, confident, experienced, nice, mature...and I do not mean mature in the sense of being old, but as opposed to having an immature attitude or like being a silly little girl (no offense to any younger women...I am just guessing here).

Maybe the younger guy finds you attractive.

Why ask why? Either go with or do not go with it, but definitely accept the postive feeling of being attractive.

unhappily married for 18 years? You deserve to feel good about yourself.
On about 2 hours ago
adrinachrome




Fukitall, Arizona
#8New Post! Sep 16, 2008 @ 18:23:47
Why does it have to be "older women" or "younger women" Or vice versa? I mean you can be attracted to anyone, regardless of age.
On August 14, 2014
desperadO

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prisoner, United Kingdom
#9New Post! Sep 16, 2008 @ 18:27:14
dont really know but its fun
On May 04, 2009
DragonLover
Perverted and Proud





In his heart, United Kingdom
#10New Post! Sep 16, 2008 @ 18:58:58
@desperado Said
dont really know but its fun



On July 05, 2011
djbennyb




Brooklyn, New York
#11New Post! Sep 16, 2008 @ 20:07:38
Here's another reason: Younger men think they have an advantage over older men. By the time a woman is in her 40's or 50's she has probably been married for a long time, and her husband now has a pot belly or a bad back. They probably have sex very infrequently, and if they do, it's really quick and harmless.

A younger dude knows that it's been a long time since that 40 or 50 year old broad has had the daylights screwed out of her so he gives it a shot...

I know all this stuff has already gone through your mind, so I wrote it for you.... If you want to relive your glory days between the sheets (who doesn't) - The go for it!!!
On September 17, 2008
Vizzy




, Florida
#12New Post! Sep 16, 2008 @ 20:10:01
@dama Said
Why would a guy go after a woman 12 years older?



Sex. It's not complicated.
On February 20, 2012
BombChelle




Ajax, Canada
#13New Post! Sep 23, 2008 @ 20:24:57
Many men love a cougar. Different maturity levels, experience, etc. Older women tend to know more about what they want, what they can give, etc. And there's always the "mother" factor.

Either way, it is what it is. You should never settle for being unhappy for 18 years. That's probably the saddest thing I've read today....
On September 24, 2008
kate80




, Philippines
#14New Post! Sep 25, 2008 @ 03:35:53
it's the same in a situations that some girls nor boys are attracted to an older men or women! Like me,since i was 18 years old I've been attracted to a man that is older than me. For about 10 years gap! Before i had a boyfriend same age of mine but it didn't worked out!I don't know why, maybe because i am looking for a much mature guy? I mean there's got to be a reason, right? And until now, i had a relationship with a guy older than me. Don't worry,there's no big deal about that as long as your in love with each other, just go for it!
On September 25, 2008
not4sale

Banned



Melbourne, Australia
#15New Post! Sep 25, 2008 @ 05:45:09
I think males hit their sexual peak in their early to mid twenties, while females hit it at early to mid thirties/early forties (in some cases). Maybe that has some thing to do with it.
On May 28, 2010
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