@NNewt84 Said
Oh my god, you guys are so inconsiderate. There's nothing wrong with a woman expressing her sexuality, but it's not okay to reduce someone to their sexual status, or just being a sex toy or whatever. Is it really any of your business if a woman sleeps with lots of guys?
And what about women who
aren't interested in sex, and hate to see women being associated with sex all the time? I can only imagine how they'd feel about this.
Why can't you just leave them alone?
Sorry to lash out at you like that, but I'm only doing this because I love women, particularly the ones who just want to be themselves and fulfil their hopes and dreams, and not be treated as f*** toys.
Is it really that hard to comprehend that women are human beings, and they have emotions and reactions to you guys generalising about them like this?
Do you understand male sexuality? Here let me help:
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Men think about sex more than they will ever let women, or even each other, know. Teachers think about f***ing their students, fathers think about f***ing their daughter’s friends, doctors think about f***ing their patients. And right now, for every woman with even an iota of sex appeal, there’s probably a man somewhere in the world who’s touching himself and thinking about what it would be like to f*** her. She may not even know him: He may be that businessman who walked past her in the street or the college student who sat across from her on the subway. And any man who tells a woman otherwise is most likely doing so because he’s trying to get in her pants, or the pants of someone else within earshot. The great lie of modern dating is that in order to sleep with a woman, a man must pretend initially as if he doesn’t want to.
Most appalling to woman is the male obsession with strippers, porn stars, and teenage girls. It is abhorrent because it threatens a woman’s reality. If all men really desire a woman like that, then where does that leave her marriage and happily-ever-after fantasies? She’s doomed to live them with a man who really wants a Victoria’s Secret model or the neighbour’s daughter or that dominatrix in the videos he hides in his closet. As a woman ages, an eighteen-year old girl will always be eighteen. Love is dashed on the rocks in the face of a possibility that a man doesn’t want a person but a body.
Fortunately, this is not the entire story. Men are visual thinkers; thus we’re often deceived by our eyes. But the truth is that the fantasy is often better than the reality.
-Neil Strauss
For the record Neil's new book comes out October 13th "The Truth", its more relationship orientated this time. Should be a blast.
However I also recommend you to read My Secret Garden by Nancy Friday. Help you get that innocent butter wouldnt melt in my mouth idea about women out of your mind. Im not saying they are a*****es, but they are not as innocent as you seem to believe either.