Now that I've got that out of the way, I'm sick and tired of the female mind. Is it too much trouble for you to make up your freaking mind? I've been stressed over this girl for about a month. We made a strong connection on a school trip, and we both liked each other. But she's stuck between me and her boyfriend. I'm not trying to steal her away from this guy, but I do really like her. The problem now is I'm tired of being stuck in a limbo. On Tuesday afternoon, she kissed me and it was great. But the next day she didn't know who to pick. I have questions of why she was to stay with her boyfriend. She let me listen to a voice mail he sent and it wasn't a good one. And I quote, "Hey you f***en b****. Why won't you answer your phone? What the hell?" I almost went and strangled him. She deserves better than him but she won't listen. It's not just me, it's all of her friends that are saying this. I really care about her but I don't to have my heart torn into a bajilliontrillion pieces again. I hate relationships!!!!!!