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Brevard, North Carolina
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The other day i done something really bad that i regret doing! My boyfriend wants to know what i did but i wont tell him because i know that he will break up with me in a instant. I keep telling him that i am sorry and he keeps begging me to tell him. I told him that he should just go ahead and break up with me. Then he got pissed off and told me that it was over! This man is the love of my life i dont want to lose him what do i do! I need help really bad. Hes my whole world! I would die for him if i had to. Weve been together for 1 year and a month!  | |
treacle
| firstly if you loved him that much you wouldnt have done whatever it is in the first place, knowing it would hurt him.
If hes broken up with you anyway i suggest coming clean about the whole thing. Be 100% honest and dont hold anything back. This way he has the oppertunity to be angry for a while, calm down and think it through and make a decision on what he wants to do next. be it leave or stay with you and work throuhg it. |
alysedai
| | I agree. Let it out. Honesty is the best policy, and I think that you should tell him either way. It's worse to be a liar and do whatever it is that you had done than to just come clean and tell what you did (I assume it was cheat, but I could be wrong). If you really cared you wouldn't have done what you did in the first place. Period. No amount of momentary pleasure is worth the pain that you may or may not have caused to your boyfriend. |
brownheadedbitch
| | i dont think that this would work! I know i shouldnt have done it, i hate myself for this |
mayhem
| i agree with treac if you feel that way why did you do that thing on him he has everyright to break up with ya if you did wat i think you did, and why shouldnt he.
if you love some1 you do whatever is in your power to keep them happy, so obviously you dont love him if you upset him so much he didnt want to be with you anymore
ask yourself one question :
would you take you back? |
treacle
| | It is very difficult to give you advice when i ont know what you have done, I am unable to help unless you say something sorry. |
jonnythan
Bringer of rad mirth
| Uh.
You need to tell him. End of story. |
vanished
| tell him. at least then he will know what it is that he is agery about then maybe he can think about the situation more clearly.
if he knows what he is supossed to be pissed at then he will know how to run it thorugh his head.
sit down and have a talk it might not be over, on sum level.
but you do need to ask yourself to question of would you forgive yourself if you were him? |
brownheadedbitch
| | I didnt have any sexual relationships with anyone at all. Meaning i never done anything to this dude and he never done anything with me. Does that help out any |
srekins
| | you should tell him its the "right" thing to do btw what did you do? |
christa
| | yes you should tell him its only fair |
taken_4life11
| Tell him about what happend and that you'll do anything to make it up to him, If you love him
that much you will tell him and if he loves you that much he won't brake up wit u |
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I need some advice
November 29, 2006 @ 03:24:19 pm
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or you will think you got away with whatever it is and maybe you will do it again 
