Safety on TFS - Girls and Boys please read

Ok we like to keep TFS a safe place for you to come and chat and air your views and make new freinds.

IF you receive any PM's from TFS members who are not your freinds and contain any material that makes you feel uncomfortable or you feel they are too personal or probing in nature please do the following:

Go to the offending member's profile and BLOCK MEMBER

Report the PM to a Moderator, El Tino, nothinsnew, Misunderstood, Stenise, Secretvixen, JessicaLizzete, BoysforPele, Twiztidangel, Stumblinthrulife, Garfunkle and Treebee. (sorry if i missed anyone)

Our Mods need to be aware if anything of this nature happens and dont feel silly for reporting it as this is completely confidential.

Please do so as we want to keep TFS comfortable for ALL members.

I agree totally, there are some members that lurk and just pm people hoping to 'hook up' if you get anything like this please tell us!

I would'nt know to tell ya the truth ....

Wouldn't know what?

thats a really good idea.

If folk want to 'hook up'.

They make it obvious. For instance I got a pm (I know how stupid they pm admin doing it ) Asking for my phone number, whether they can 'swap pics' etc etc.

If someones being a jerk you just know anyway, all this thread is really saying is, if you feel uncomfortable let us know. TFS is all about being relaxed and feeling safe, if someones making you feel uneasy let us do something about it

I gotcha!... Ok ...But I reckon folk are not that stupid to try that with me.

I think it would be a good idea, also to have a list of all the mods on the homepage to indicate when there is a mod online, and also it will make it easier to find one. Especially for new members?

That's a good idea! a "Current Mods Online Now" box on the front page...yep, a good idea!

yep yep good idea

All good stuff.

This seems a really friendly site - and I've just joined In all internet sites though, there is going to be a potential element to spoil the atmosphere (I've had moderating experience, and I know ).
It's not fair anyone should be put off somewhere by this sort of unwelcome approach.
Anyway of contacting a mod easily to come in with a banning stick (or cattle prod ) can't be bad.

And normally these types of people have no idea how to navigate around TFS, because if they had, they would have already known that Missy has about 50000 pictures in her pics section

I like that idea!

Someone I was talking to the other day was complaining about people flirting with her on here. I told her to add the people to her enemies list, and PM a moderator or an admin. It's very simple guys!