I Converted To Islam after 33 years

Hmmmm , interesting

I don't mean in a spiritual sense. I mean that there's so much information around us that we can access at the touch of a button, yet people still actively decide to forge prejudices based on mass generalisations. There's a lot more communication present between people of different cultures now as well, which is good, so there's no reason for people not to actually find something out about them and learn that not everyone is the same.

i totally agree sister xx

No, that's fair enough, I mean it in all senses, and in a way is the inspiration for one of my favourite sayings "Those in the majority are generally also in the wrong." as well as "Those who generalise are generally wrong"

And it is also a practice among many Fathers to molest little boys. Maybe you should try that? Do God's will?

WTF is happening here ?? Explain

That would almost be best not to ask. The most basic way to put it is that it's like a religious stereotype war. Catholic Priests molest little boys, Muslims are terrorists....

Just so I'm understanding the predicament...

Your parents, who are non-practicing Christians have a problem with your beliefs. Is it because of your beliefs, or just because or Ramadan?

I'm not terribly certain how different the criteria towards life is between Christian and Muslim, but you specifically mention that they think it's idiotic to starve yourself. Fasting is also a Christian principle and if memory serves, you are allowed to eat after sundown (right?) so you're not even starving yourself.

Also a Biblical principle is that when a man marries, he separates from his parents and cleaves to his wife. Of course, they expected you to remain in the (sort of) faith that you were raised with, but you've made your choice and if you believe in it, you should stand on it.

I don't believe you should turn from your faith because it's hurting your parents. If I put myself in their shoes, I would be wondering where I fell short in my own faith that I didn't demonstrate it well enough for my child that (s)he would remain in that same faith.

I realize that I've answered this from more of a Christian perspective and using Christian reasoning, but I don't think that your parents would respond to Muslim teaching.

Peace be on you.

Here are some relevant verses from Holy Quran, while you continue your wise and kind efforts. You can act according to your situation.

1) And We have enjoined on man kindness to his parents; but if they strive to make thee associate that with Me of which thou hast no knowledge, then obey them not. Unto Me is your return, and I shall inform you of what you did. [Holy Quran chapter 29: verse 9]

2) And if they contend with thee to make thee set up equals with Me concerning which thou hast no knowledge, obey them not, but be a kind companion to them in all worldly affairs; and in spiritual matters follow the way of him who turns to Me. Then unto Me will be your return and I shall inform you of what you used to do.[31:16]

3)Prayer for parents:
My Lord, have mercy on them even as they nourished me in my childhood.[17: words from 25]

4)Prayer for spouse:
Our Lord, grant us of our wives and children the delight of our eyes, and make us a model for the righteous.[25: words from 75]

Ref:https://www.alislam.org/quran/search2/index.php

All i have to say is good on you for doing what you feel is right for you and As-Sal?mu `Alaykum