people who complain about their weight 24/7...

@iamachicken Said

but make absolutely NO effort to change their lifestyles even slightly make me so mad. then they make me feel worse when they tell me they're "jealous" of my body (that just made me sound conceited...i'm sorry-i'm not like that at all). it makes me angry that i even have a friend like this, who i talk to every day. she complains so much about her weight, sometimes i feel hesitant to approach her because i'm afraid she's going to go off on an "i'm so fat" rant, but what irritates me the most is that when ever i offer to help her out with exercise when she starts going off about how "chubby" she is, she makes up excuses to not work out and burn off some calories like, "but i hate running", or even if i suggest something other than running, she'll say something like "i don't have time" or "but you're in better shape than me. i'm not going to be able to keep up with you. i'm going to hold you back".

first of all, please, if you're too lazy to at least try and lose weight, don't come to me and start whining about being overweight.

secondly, i don't care if i'm in better shape than you or not. i'm not exercising for myself-i do that already at school. i'm talking outside of school, over the weekend or breaks, for YOU. so don't worry about "holding me back", because you're not.

@offbeat Said

a true friend would hit the pies and donuts in order to gain 50 pounds and not make their unhappy friend feel inadequate

@HiImDan Said

True, but some peole can't help it I'm not complaining, just explaining...

@sTreetAngeL Said

The next time she starts whining, and then giving reasons why she "can't", just respond with, "well stay fat then."...said very matter of factly.
I bet she doesn't hound you anymore, or she will begin to get serious, - one or the other.

If she acts 'hurt', just say, "what? I'm just agreeing with you."

This may 'seem' mean; but really, it's the best thing, as her friend, that you can ever do for her.