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Lewisville, United States (gen

Mar 29, 2009 @ 04:51:44

Hey. I'm engaged to a wanderful man that has a wanderful calling, he's suppose to be a preacher....Me on the other hand....I'm wild....oh lets mention we go to a pennicostal church and his parents and my grandparents (the ones I live with) are hard core pennicostal....I'm ruining his image. He told me today that he didnt want to be a preacher becuase he'd have to have the perfect image and I couln't let him do that (hewas not being mean at all.) becase I don have long hair and wear skirts all the time... Am I worrying that I'll ruin this for him...I feel like I'm holding him back....What should I do we love each oher vary much...I love him with all my heart. But I dont think his mom approves of me... I dont know what to do.... PLease someone help me....>.>

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adlawrence

Eastern, North Carolina

#2

Mar 29, 2009 @ 04:54:06

If you love eachother and God has planned for y'all to be together it will all work out... and God may have your fiance's plan as being a preacher and he may not... I think it will all work out.

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vekta

,

#3

Mar 29, 2009 @ 04:54:29

You have two choices:

Adapt your let go.

If they don't like you they'll make your lives hell. So you'll have to change unless he changes.

life sucks huh...

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backseatcynic

Henryetta, Oklahoma

#4

Mar 29, 2009 @ 04:56:48

You're 17, and engaged? Don't be afraid to wait things out for a while. I don't doubt you love him and want to be with him. But you're 17! There's no rush when your whole life's ahead of you, and you are still committed and with him without being married. So what would it hurt?

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vekta

,

#5

Mar 29, 2009 @ 04:59:28

Since you're so young you're way of thinking might change in the years to come. Who you are now may not be exactly the same person you'll be in 5 or 10 years. The teen years can be fickle.

Not hating...just telling you what you don't wanna hear.

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insane_angel

Lewisville, United States (gen

#6

Mar 29, 2009 @ 05:00:09

@backseatcynic Said

You're 17, and engaged? Don't be afraid to wait things out for a while. I don't doubt you love him and want to be with him. But you're 17! There's no rush when your whole life's ahead of you, and you are still committed and with him without being married. So what would it hurt?

please...i get enough of this... honestly thats not my problem right now...not trying to be rude this isnt about my enagement....

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backseatcynic

Henryetta, Oklahoma

#7

Mar 29, 2009 @ 05:05:16

I have to disagree with you there. Your engagement is at the root of the problem here. You're worried about him denying what he wants to be, and to do it for you, yes? So when you're married, that pretty well cinches it. So I'm saying, take a breath and let things calm down for a while. Everyone can relax, think, and talk about things for a while. Eases family stresses and tensions that way, and yours too. That's my opinion anyway.

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fuzzy_hand_cuffs

I WORK OUT

Clarksville, Tennessee

#8

Mar 29, 2009 @ 05:05:18

do what you feel. no one should hold you and him back from being in love, and not to criticize your religion but no religion should hold back love.

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JuanSmith

Shilsh-Aash yatasay

Near Eucalyptus Trees, Califor

#9

Mar 29, 2009 @ 05:07:20

@backseatcynic Said

I have to disagree with you there. Your engagement is at the root of the problem here. You're worried about him denying what he wants to be, and to do it for you, yes? So when you're married, that pretty well cinches it. So I'm saying, take a breath and let things calm down for a while. Everyone can relax, think, and talk about things for a while. Eases family stresses and tensions that way, and yours too. That's my opinion anyway.

ditto

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darkangel28

im a maplestoryadict

damn it started snowing again,

#10

Mar 29, 2009 @ 05:10:49

people change over time they mature and grow up as they get older when my sister was your age she was out partying all time and now she is married and has 2 kids to a guy who is a total alcoholic u should be lucky that u found a guy who is more religous cuz that way if u guys do get married he will be there for you when u change because u will as u get older u will get tired of the way your living your life now and want to change and grow up its just apart of life.

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arcades

Northbay, Canada

#11

Mar 29, 2009 @ 05:12:19

@insane_angel Said

Hey. I'm engaged to a wanderful man that has a wanderful calling, he's suppose to be a preacher....Me on the other hand....I'm wild....oh lets mention we go to a pennicostal church and his parents and my grandparents (the ones I live with) are hard core pennicostal....I'm ruining his image. He told me today that he didnt want to be a preacher becuase he'd have to have the perfect image and I couln't let him do that (hewas not being mean at all.) becase I don have long hair and wear skirts all the time... Am I worrying that I'll ruin this for him...I feel like I'm holding him back....What should I do we love each oher vary much...I love him with all my heart. But I dont think his mom approves of me... I dont know what to do.... PLease someone help me....>.>

I think your fiancee should stop caring about what others think of you. Hes the preacher not you If they don't like they way you are then to bad. They don't have to live with you.

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HiImDan

Cleveland, the boil on the but

#12

Mar 29, 2009 @ 05:14:09

Phil 2:13 For it is God which worketh in you both to will and to do of his good pleasure.

I'm Pentecostal as well and I know the truth in this passage. Wait on God, if He want's you to grow out your hair and wear skirts you'll know it, don't rush it. Talk to your boyfriend about this as well, he needs to be patient with you. If it was meant to be God will make a way. If not, you have to accept it.

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xnuvax

Deleted

SYDNEY, Australia

#13

Mar 29, 2009 @ 06:16:43

Be polite and be yourself, and more importantly be proud of your individuality. Just don't disrespect anyone with it. With patience and time, you will know what the right thing to do is.

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insane_angel

Lewisville, United States (gen

#14

Mar 29, 2009 @ 14:09:27

@HiImDan Said

Phil 2:13 For it is God which worketh in you both to will and to do of his good pleasure.

I'm Pentecostal as well and I know the truth in this passage. Wait on God, if He want's you to grow out your hair and wear skirts you'll know it, don't rush it. Talk to your boyfriend about this as well, he needs to be patient with you. If it was meant to be God will make a way. If not, you have to accept it.

Thaks I was hoping to hear something from someone of the same religion. I grew up hating this religion...Now...Its not that much better. I want to be the image wife he deserves as a preature...I just cant believe God care that much about your appearence as long as you dont go around looking like a hoocker.

ps think you for not saying anything about my marriage.

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MirLou

Cork, Ireland

#15

Mar 29, 2009 @ 14:39:27

You have a right to chose your own destiny. If you both love each other, don't let Gold slip through your fingers and out of your life forever. Best wishes.

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Edited: March 29, 2009 @ 14:40

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