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lexxel On March 22, 2009




adelaide, Australia
#16New Post! Mar 18, 2008 @ 15:12:50
ive been in a relationship where the lady had been testing me on how my responses to cirtian situations - it went on for a while and finally called it quits on her
it made me lose faith in her both as a friend and a partner
treacle On July 11, 2009




B/Stoke, United Kingdom
#17New Post! Mar 18, 2008 @ 15:14:43
@lexxel Said
I do bend over backwards many times an


Thats always handy to know when looking for a partner
lexxel On March 22, 2009




adelaide, Australia
#18New Post! Mar 18, 2008 @ 15:16:35
MlissaBeth On February 13, 2013
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Tucson, Arizona
#19New Post! Mar 18, 2008 @ 15:16:58
@lexxel Said
ive been in a relationship where the lady had been testing me on how my responses to cirtian situations - it went on for a while and finally called it quits on her
it made me lose faith in her both as a friend and a partner


note to self, stop testing men.
treacle On July 11, 2009




B/Stoke, United Kingdom
#20New Post! Mar 18, 2008 @ 15:18:18
@lexxel Said


Sorry. couldnt resist!
treacle On July 11, 2009




B/Stoke, United Kingdom
#21New Post! Mar 18, 2008 @ 15:18:58
@mlissabeth Said
note to self, stop testing men.


Only stop testing men if they promise to stop comparing us to thier ex's. Something alot of guys have an awful habit of doing!
lexxel On March 22, 2009




adelaide, Australia
#22New Post! Mar 18, 2008 @ 15:22:28
thats a good idea - cause we men are somewhat dopey in that dep (kidding)

lifes meant to be fun if u need to test the person your with then that isnt really fun, its more like intrusive - not only to the partner but too oneself - there are guys who do that aswell so its not just a women thing
lexxel On March 22, 2009




adelaide, Australia
#23New Post! Mar 18, 2008 @ 15:23:37
@treacle Said
Only stop testing men if they promise to stop comparing us to thier ex's. Something alot of guys have an awful habit of doing!


that is true when a partner compares ya to their ex - its losing sight of the person before you
treacle On July 11, 2009




B/Stoke, United Kingdom
#24New Post! Mar 18, 2008 @ 15:24:24
@lexxel Said
thats a good idea - cause we men are somewhat dopey in that dep (kidding)

lifes meant to be fun if u need to test the person your with then that isnt really fun, its more like intrusive - not only to the partner but too oneself - there are guys who do that aswell so its not just a women thing


I was going to say. I dont think its a specific sex, I think its more to do with previous relationships
lexxel On March 22, 2009




adelaide, Australia
#25New Post! Mar 18, 2008 @ 15:36:05
well ladies and especially mlissabeth who I thank for the poem and wonderful conversation, I wish you well and enjoy your day

off to watch a movie
MlissaBeth On February 13, 2013
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Tucson, Arizona
#26New Post! Mar 18, 2008 @ 15:37:36
@treacle Said
Only stop testing men if they promise to stop comparing us to thier ex's. Something alot of guys have an awful habit of doing!


But don't we do that too. I know I used to a lot. Until my last relationship. And I was huge into testing men. I need to know if they care about me and if they don't show it enough I used to test them to see. Bad old habit of mine.
treacle On July 11, 2009




B/Stoke, United Kingdom
#27New Post! Mar 18, 2008 @ 15:40:16
@mlissabeth Said
But don't we do that too.

My point exactly. Its not down to sex. Either sex is responsible for doing both.
MlissaBeth On February 13, 2013
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Tucson, Arizona
#28New Post! Mar 18, 2008 @ 15:48:48
@treacle Said
@mlissabeth Said
But don't we do that too.

My point exactly. Its not down to sex. Either sex is responsible for doing both.



Yup!!!
lexxel On March 22, 2009




adelaide, Australia
#29New Post! Mar 18, 2008 @ 16:06:08
@mlissabeth Said
But don't we do that too. I know I used to a lot. Until my last relationship. And I was huge into testing men. I need to know if they care about me and if they don't show it enough I used to test them to see. Bad old habit of mine.


we all have done it at one stage....to various degrees, theres a difference in the level of it being done though where it can be intrusive
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