Love Life Troubles

hello well i'm new here but seek some sensible advice. I have had a problem with a woman i was seeing. It was just casual stuff, and we got on great. But she's decided she no longer finds me attractive 'cause i 'got too attached to her'. I didn't think this was the case but there you go. Any ideas how i can get things back to the way they were, as it seems a pity to waste what we had, over something so small and unmeaningfull.

Ignore her!! Act like you don't care..works every time!!

I tried hard to talk to her about it; do u think ignoring her now would work?

i dont entirely agree with this while it is important not to be too clingly still i think it hurts both people when one ignores the other

If she's gonna act that way just move on and forget her. Its her loss.

Exactly, it sounds to me like you deep down want more than
just a "friends with benefits" situation.
You should just move on and find someone who will
appreciate they way you are.

hmm...i kinda feel that way sometimes too. i personally think its just kinda my way to see if someone really likes me; get them to like me and then kinda put them aside for the moment. but i have to say, a few times when the guys ignored me, i wanted them back so that may be your best bet??

Actually, that can be quite true. It is a turn off when guys take things too fast. OR like you TOO much. Give her a little space. Make her want more. That's the key. Keep her guessing and be exciting.

Maybe she likes the chasing game, ahh I hate games but usually it works every time. Ignore the person and then they usually come running..Just relax and like it has been said give her some space, I know I had an ex who was very clingy and it just got annoying and being with the person was like a chore. Let her have HER TIME..