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What price would you pay to forget the reason for your broken heart?
"Love is the most powerful magic, therefor the cure must be extreme...Love makes us sick, haunts our dreams, destroys our days. Love has killed more than any disease. This cure is a gift."-Rumpelstiltskin
Once Upon A Time Season 1 Episode 10
In this monologue he is talking about loosing love, or lost love.... or love that can never be..... You have to admit, that when you have lost a loved one, or someone you fell in love with, you have felt exactly this... During these times we all wish for a cure for a broken heart.... but here's the question....
If there was a cure for a broken heart would you take it, knowing that the only way to cure it is that you will never even remember that you knew them when you saw them next? Or is it better to have loved and lost and live with the memory and the pain everyday for the rest of your life? Can't wait to hear y'alls answers :D | |
MAW
| | It's better to have loved and lost and live with the bitter-sweet memories, I would not want to erase all the bad times. |
rosediamond93
| @MAW Said 
It's better to have loved and lost and live with the bitter-sweet memories, I would not want to erase all the bad times.
The only reason I wouldn't take it is because I feel that the good times out weighed the bad.... though it still hurts, I have to hold on to the hope that I will find that again... |
MAW
| @rosediamond93 Said
The only reason I wouldn't take it is because I feel that the good times out weighed the bad.... though it still hurts, I have to hold on to the hope that I will find that again...
Well that's what you gotta keep a hold of and never give up hoping against hope. |
Electric_Banana
| Hindsight usually reveals the yeck they actually were and corrects that feeling of 'loss.'
It's the resentment of having been played fools that still, to this day, feeds our contempt for this life. |
rosediamond93
| @Electric_Banana Said
Hindsight usually reveals the yeck they actually were and corrects that feeling of 'loss.'
It's the resentment of having been played fools that still, to this day, feeds our contempt for this life.
hmmmmm..... I have never thought of it that way... I can see how the resentment would hold a HUGE part for the reason of contempt.... what can be said though for the fools who still love the ones they lost? (talking about myself ofc) |
MAW
| @rosediamond93 Said
hmmmmm..... I have never thought of it that way... I can see how the resentment would hold a HUGE part for the reason of contempt.... what can be said though for the fools who still love the ones they lost? (talking about myself ofc)
Well, why do you still love the ones you've lost and why can't you move on? |
Electric_Banana
| @rosediamond93 Said
hmmmmm..... I have never thought of it that way... I can see how the resentment would hold a HUGE part for the reason of contempt.... what can be said though for the fools who still love the ones they lost? (talking about myself ofc)
I would believe that they were innocent and inexperienced. Not quite ready for a true relationship but had the makings to one day be a really good partner for someone once they ironed out a few issues.
In my instance, my few relations were not innocent and seemed to have engaged me intentionally short-term for the purpose of experiment or to prove a point. |
rosediamond93
| @Electric_Banana Said
I would believe that they were innocent and inexperienced. Not quite ready for a true relationship but had the makings to one day be a really good partner for someone once they ironed out a few issues.
In my instance, my few relations were not innocent and seemed to have engaged me intentionally short-term for the purpose of experiment or to prove a point.
ouch  I agree with your first statement too, that's seems to be the case in my instance.... the question still remains, though, is since there is no "cure" for a broken heart, how do you get past the pain? Forgiving, and understanding help alot, but there still remains those daggers of hurt... what numbs that pain? |
MAW
| @Electric_Banana Said
I would believe that they were innocent and inexperienced. Not quite ready for a true relationship but had the makings to one day be a really good partner for someone once they ironed out a few issues.
In my instance, my few relations were not innocent and seemed to have engaged me intentionally short-term for the purpose of experiment or to prove a point.
Damn, they used you like that, that is nasty. |
rosediamond93
| @MAW Said
I agree, it is difficult under the circumstances and you both should be involved, just hope it does not make it difficult for you both to move on.
HA!!! Difficult for us both? He has no problem moving on at all... He has this amazing ability to just turn his feelings off... I on the other hand have no such talent and it only makes things worse when I try... |
MAW
| @rosediamond93 Said
HA!!! Difficult for us both? He has no problem moving on at all... He has this amazing ability to just turn his feelings off... I on the other hand have no such talent and it only makes things worse when I try...
Well maybe he's just not good with his feelings or at showing them, you think it will get worse for you the more involved he gets in bringing up the child with you? |
Electric_Banana
| @rosediamond93 Said
ouch I agree with your first statement too, that's seems to be the case in my instance.... the question still remains, though, is since there is no "cure" for a broken heart, how do you get past the pain? Forgiving, and understanding help alot, but there still remains those daggers of hurt... what numbs that pain?
Did you leave or did he leave?
If you left, and his faults were not completely destructive - you could give him a second chance.
If he left, the one thing that I came to discover is that there is not just one person meant for us. I love my fiancée dearly but realize had things worked differently, and I had not met her, there would have been quite a few others whom I could have loved just as much (and probably for different reasons) with the only difference being the difference of that person's story and the ambiance associated with it.
So if there is no going back just focus on the fact that it gives you opportunity to try out some of these other worlds you might have otherwise missed out on. |
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What price would you pay to forget?
October 27, 2012 @ 10:50:39 pm
