 Britt_mum1_09
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Hanover area, Canada
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well today I am cleanin my apt, gathering up absolutely everything in my apt that Johnny left behind and whenever I can get ahold of him, I am gunna tell him that when he brings me my car seat he can get the rest of his s*** too. This has been pretty hard because this really isnt what I wanted at all, but I cant keep holding on when all he's doing is hurting me and he obviously doesnt care about being with me, or my daughter....So I guess this is me letting go, or trying to in the least.....
Now i just have to talk to him and then see him one last time......   | |
chisa96
Supreme Goddess
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(Well, that hug looks a bit too happy to work here, but you get the idea.) |
sTreetAngeL
root tedt ree
| Yeah, and if he is the type to fart around...give him a time period in which to exchange your things; tell him if he doesn't give you your car seat back within that time frame, you will sell his things in order to buy a new one.  |
Britt_mum1_09
| | ah there's nothing worth selling lol he took anything that was worth money and I told him to keep his $100 coat that i bought him for xmas lol so that wouldnt work. its basically jus clothes and some random stuff |
sAeGeSpAeNe
Part-time Nidologist
| @Britt_mum1_09 Said 
ah there's nothing worth selling lol he took anything that was worth money and I told him to keep his $100 coat that i bought him for xmas lol so that wouldnt work. its basically jus clothes and some random stuff
Just take his clothes and random stuff to the dump, or start a bonfire. If he took off with the little one's car-seat, chances are it is either already sold, or not in any condition that you would want to see. Don't even bother to try to call him.
If he calls you, then you can simply say, "Good-bye!", hang up, and you'll be free of him... It's not like he will be lifting a finger anytime soon to give you a hand.
So sorry for your troubles. |
JR_Sanford
| @Britt_mum1_09 Said well today I am cleanin my apt, gathering up absolutely everything in my apt that Johnny left behind and whenever I can get ahold of him, I am gunna tell him that when he brings me my car seat he can get the rest of his s*** too. This has been pretty hard because this really isnt what I wanted at all, but I cant keep holding on when all he's doing is hurting me and he obviously doesnt care about being with me, or my daughter....So I guess this is me letting go, or trying to in the least.....
Now i just have to talk to him and then see him one last time......
Well, chalk this up to experience. Look at the knowledge, lessons, and gains that you acquired during that relationship. Attempt to remain "friends" at least. Try keeping your attitude at an upbeat level. YOU are important to your daughter! Be all the Mom you can be for her. She'll learn that a Woman can take care of herself, and know that Family comes first.
He's the loser, not You.
J.R. |
sweetheart5545
| @JR_Sanford Said
Well, chalk this up to experience. Look at the knowledge, lessons, and gains that you acquired during that relationship. Attempt to remain "friends" at least. Try keeping your attitude at an upbeat level. YOU are important to your daughter! Be all the Mom you can be for her. She'll learn that a Woman can take care of herself, and know that Family comes first.
He's the loser, not You.
J.R.
I agree,very well said J.R. |
Britt_mum1_09
| | Thanks JR. I still miss him but i am realising a lot now, just wish I hadn't been so blind. haha I guess the joke's on me LOL But oh well sucks to be him. He could have had everything he wanted if he'd only loved us and treated me with some respect and wasnt a useless tit to sum it up....but he'd rather lye to me bout talking to girls and f*** around n s*** so w/e.. But oh well. Tomorrow is a new day, right? I hope whatever may come along in the future is 10x better... |
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Moving on.... (I think)
July 08, 2011 @ 04:55:53 pm
