Way back n the mid to late 1990's when y youngest kid was entering high school . The school she was to start attending , had been a closed campus for quite sometime with a 12 foot high chain link fence surrounding the entire place , which was not a problem to my way of thinking.
But , the year before my kid started her freshman year t,he school became more like a detention center or juvenile correctional facility with guards on the roofs and at the entrance gate a metal detector at the front doors complete with guards..
There had not been any serious issue with violence of any kind. No kid napping or gang banger problems nor fire arm / weapons.
I did not like the changes , but felt I had no choice. It's not like there are high schools around every corner .
The school year was just started the first report cards were couple f weeks away , hen one day I had to go get my kid for a doctors appointment she had .
Now, I'm her mother and legal guardian , she's in a public school and it was local and real doctor she had an appointment with . I showed up an hour before her appointment to get her , Starting at the gate
I was treated like I was trying to kidnap the president or something. It took 20 minutes get passed that guard with all his inane questions an requisites for info. , so by the time I'm walking though the front doors I'm not in a real nice frame of mind.I walk thur their detector with no problem . Then the secretary starts in with the same s*** the a** hole at the gate had.
I mentioned that maybe she could just call him and get his okay about me and then if she could use her intercom and call my kid up there maybe we wouldn't miss her appointment
Long story short. We not only missed the doc appt. we were over a hour late before my kid walked into that sectaries office.
I had , had to much by then. Before I left that school property that day my kid had been un enrolled ..
She never walked though another public school door again, She went Thu the four years of highschool attending a private church school. Now I' ot a chrch ger and a that time o since ave never attended an servics or gatherings at that or any other church.
I really hated that she didn't have the extra activties like ball games and clubs and the social interaction that akid gets atendin regular high school . But f the trade off was a better education fr the kid , none of the the crappy education and the s***ty way the public schools had started treating both the students and parents .
Now days it seems that a week doesn't pass that we hear about some school having been on ' lock down' for all sorts of different reasons. That is a phrase that should not be assoiciated with a place full of children ,IMO.
It's strange, we have turned our schools into prison like places,keeping the kids in and the rest of the world out and it does no good. For a parent to get onto and remove their kids from a school property for a Doctors appt. is about as easy as touring the white house, post 9/11.