My husband is taking secret candid pictures of my bestfriends and other random gi

Help!!! I recently found a application on my husbands iphone called "top secret camera" it is locked by a password but I was able to figure it out. It had around 160 random pictures of girls bums and legs candid shots, about 80% were of my bestfriend while the 3 of us were hanging out.... We recently had a baby together, our baby boy is just 2 months.... WHat am i to think??? What do i do in this case??? Is this considered cheating???

I'd dump his ass, no questions asked. What a jerk.

Cheating? It could very well be illegal.

WHOA! Secret, what a tool he is, and a new dad to boot How long have you two been married, may I ask? Has he given you any evidence SINCE YOU'VE KNOW HIM that he's into this kind of thing? In other words, is it out of left field???

Cheating?? Amongst other things to say the least! It's a violation of trust on so many levels.

You really should leave him. Or make him seek therapy as an only way you will stay with him.

Also as part of the conditions, make him apologize to your friend to her face.
If that doesn't shame him out of his behavior, I'm afraid there is no hope.

Ahem...pics?!?

If I were the friend, I'd be going to the police with the evidence to see if anything legally can be done. If he wants to look at someone else, let him get a porn mag or watch porn. Taking private photos of women without their consent and doing God knows what to them, awful.

been married for 2 years & he never showed any evidence before of this kind of thing....

You people are all so quick to break apart a family and end a marriage.

This is a big issue, but it doesn't sound like she has broached the topic with him at all. It sounds like they need to sit down and discuss it before they need to end their marriage and raise their child in a broken home.

There's nothing illegal about taking the pictures even though it is very creepy.

The fact that you have a child with this person makes it more complicated than just "dump his a** right now."

You need to sit down and speak to him about it.

Wow. There's some good advice here, Feelingunloved, from women (and some men) who have a lot of experience. It's such a feeling of betrayal, especially with the new baby and all. WTF was he thinking, he wouldn't get caught???

I agree that you should make him 'fess up to your friend. He should be getting some serious consequences for this type of behavior, IMO.

That's what I would do. I don't put up with s*** like that, but everyone is different.

Wellard, I'm hoping you're not asking to see the pics this guy took!!!

yep i agree with this too

I think that's one of the worst things the OP can do. She will be ruining her social life if she does so, alienating her friends and publicly shaming her husband. That does no one any good.