girls stick with me

I don't know I would feel really rejected and embaressed if my boyfriend did that to me. If you're really uncomfortable with him going, you should let him know. If he's understanding enough, then he'll choose you over that.

Maybe you'll luck out and he'll go to one with hideous beasts as entertainment? Just because they're strippers doesn't mean they're attractive. They've got some awful looking wenches in some of those places. One look and he may not go back But HE needs to be the one to decide this, not you. If you start "allowing" or "forbidding" him to do things, he'll eventually resent you and then where will you be? That's not to say that you cannot tell him how you feel about him going . . .

Why say he has resorted to stripers? Maybe he is just going because he feels he has to? I went to a strip club and hated it for loads of reasons

Honey, I know how you feel. In my opion a stripper is slightly better than a hooker. My hubby went to one for his batcholer party, another rite of passage. It hurt me because here I am pregnant and feeling like a fat cow. You can't control him; if you try to he'll leave. Do you want to be told what you can and can not do? With him it was a one time thing and I try not to think about it, even though the hoe sat on his lap.