@lil_bear01 Said
That's what happened to my Uncle when he committed suicide at 35 years of age with a wife and 2 boys.
He had been seeing 5 psychiatrists and was given many meds which just made it a lot worse. He was a walking zombie.
While my Aunt and my nephews were gone to the boy's hockey game [of which they won the trophy for first place], they came home all excited crying out with happiness Dad, Dad we won.
They looked for him everywhere and found him in the basement hung by a beam.
They tried to lift him up while my Aunt called 911, but because they were in the country it took some time before they got there. He had been struggling to loosen the rope around his neck but couldn't manage to free himself from the noose and finally died.
In this case there was a lucid moment through the haze of meds that let him realize that what he was doing wasn't what he really wanted to do but it was too late.
It took the whole family years upon years to get over his suicide, especially when the paramedics told the family that he had fought hard to stop it but didn't have the physical strength to stop it and loosen the rope....
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"" He had been seeing 5 psychiatrists and was given many meds which just made it a lot worse. He was a walking zombie.""
It really pisses me off when I hear about how doctors don't take the time to do the job they are being paid for and ask the few simple questions of the patitient and /or the family that would go a long ways in helping a patient instead of endangering the lives and well being .
I realise that while a loved one , in this case the husband and father , is going though treatment the family is worrying , try to be supportive and keeping the home and family together and it just never enters into the equation to question the doctors and treatment.
The 5 different doctors should be made to share equally in the death of their patient. After All they all were pushing the drugs and I'm betting not one of them ever ask those few simple questions . are you being treated by another doctor ?and are you already taking prescribed drugs ? or even worse, they all knew about each other but were to busy trying to get an early TEE off time to worry about their patient.
And because those doctors were not doing their job a family has suffered for " years upon years" dealing with the death of a loved one.
I do not blame doctors for the illness, I do blame them for the way they 'play god' while not doing their jobs to the best of their training ands abilities.