For the guys out there, girls too......would you wait?

Whats up guys and girls,

My name is john and I have a question for the guys out there and the ladies if they would like to answer.

Been talking to this girl for 3yrs. She is beautiful, smart, just a wonderful person. We fell in love, talked about kids and getting married and having a life together. We have sex on the phone all the time. And its awsome. But with all of that there is just 1 BIG THING i left out. To this day we have never met in person. We met on the internet, we talk every day, but still have never met in person.

Now my question to you the guys and ladies, would you still be in the relationship after all this time. Going day in and day out wanting the other person so bad but never having them. WOULD YOU STILL WAIT FOR HER.

LET ME KNOW GUYS AND LADIES.

It would depend on why you haven't met her really.

That must be awkward

It's difficult to say.I've been in situations similiar to that,but not that period of time.I can't say if I would stick it out that long without meeting the person persay.Though I do wish you luck in it.

You know, phone sex would be a massive upgrade for me. So yeah.

Why haven't you met her yet? If its not just the phone sex keeping you together, than I don't see why not. There must be something there for you to continue your online relationship for so long without ever setting eyes on each other.

They may be too far apart to just meet up as they'd like to.

I guess if you two lovebirds make each other happy then why not wait for each other?

I had that same question, why havent you met her yet? 3 years and never met seems a little odd. Who is the one who is making excuses not to meet?

yeah, it really does depend on your honest to god relationship, and just why it is you two never met. let alone the question: does he or she EVER have any intention of meeting you. sometimes phone sex is all they really need. why? beats me.

i suppose, int he event that the two people live moderately close and have every intention of honestly falling for one another, waiting is okay. but if its too long, then youll know its strickly phone sex buddies.

I'm met a few people i was friends with online. It was always awkward at first because it's much easier to chat online because you have time to pick your answers carefully. I think waiting won't hurt. Although i'd try and get her to meet you so you can try and start a friendship outside of the internet.

Time to move on with your life and find a true and meaningful relationship,life is too short to waste on somebody who cannot make a commitment after 3 years, get out into the real world if you are sincere about starting a relationship with somebody, instead of living in fantasy land. All the best to you.

Man, howzat is essentially as blunt as me. Finally someone who can understand the way I think.

phone sex?that's awkard

Look if you have not meet yet there is now hope Hey i dont know how you can enjoy ph sex it would not be fun Take some advise ok and move on Theses internet romances are not real I know some have met,but in three years ... there most be some thing wrong are you sure its a girl your talking to .