A cynical thought...

between my marriages and the seeing them that lent up to them,i was always the other woman who was looking forjust that cos i didntwant to get involved,a perssonal choice by me and one i was more than happy with.

i would rather be the other woman tbh

i couldnt handle my bf cheating on me but if i was the other woman it wouldnt be my problem, if that makes sense?

I would prefer to be the GF/Wife with a BF/Husband that wasn't a cheating bastard I don't think I could ever handle being the "Other Woman" I wouldn't want to be hurt like that and I wouldn't want to hurt someone like that either. You can try to blame the person that is in the relationship and say it's their problem and not yours...but if you know they are in a supposedly committed relationship half the blame falls on you too. If someone likes having a Lil something on the side I don't think they should be in a committed relationship...date without strings and save everyone who could be involved the heartache.