"Love is all you need to be happy..."  rlartundo
More Pics
Tijuana, Mexico
Joined: Jul 2006 |
| |
|
Ok so here it goes. 12 years ago I was with this one guy. I got pregnat. He asked my to have an abortion. I told him no, that is I was mature enough to have sex than I was going to stick with the consecuenses. I so I was alone my whole pregnacy, even when I was in the hospital giving birth ( I had my mom, but is not the same). I had her I got my own place (no more living with mom and pops). He asked me to marry him I told him no cause he has a girlfriend and that why should I that when I really needed him he send to hell. Ok so the years went by I still talk to his family cause they loved me and my daughter more than his girlfriend. I stop going by to his parents house cause Ididn't want any problems.
After 5 years he found me again and we started talking about his daughter of course. He told me that he has never stoped loving me and that he would divorse his wife and get with me. I laughed in his ear. We didn't speak or her from him ever since.
11years later he finds her on myspace. She has been with him on the weekends and stuff. I don't care that is her dad if she wants to see him I am not going to deny her from seeing him. She is old enough. I think.
The last two times that he had dropped her off he told me once again that he has never stopped loving me. He tryed to kiss me, wich I turned my head the other way. He now left his wife... What makes him think that I am going to get back with him after all this years and all does turn downs... Do you have any advise for me cause my head is blocked.... | |
squirt_aka_casey
BCW-Ant Destroyer
| Wow.... I think that you are doing the correct thing. Who cares if he has "feelings" for you, he has walked away from you too many times, and he is obviously not really commited to anyone anyway, so why would you think that he would be to you!!! Plus, it really doesn't sound like you love him all that much and I can't blame you!!!! Don't fall for his games, stick by your guns!!! Be strong!!!  |
slartundo
| | aww mom i know yu dont want to get back w/ him so dont love you |
pinksparklystars
| i agree, you've been doing the right thing all along. Just be strong you have obviously made a great life for you and your daughter no reason to mess it up now  |
sal
| i think that u should do wat ur hearts tells u to.. we cannot tell u wether u still have feelings for him or not.. its ur choice. but if hes a good person.. i guess seeing his kid wont be a prob.is it?
wish u all the best!! |
treacle
| | Just stick to what you have been doing. Youve done great so far |
hallucinogenic_lipstick
Cocksocket.
| I kind of know what your going through, my father walked out on me when i was a tiny and 25 years later he decided he wanted my mother back lmao.
I told my mother if she considered it id never talk to her again....my father is a d***head.
Dont get involved again hon, it'l only bite you in the arse later. |
dangermouse
| | Sounds like he hasn't made up his mind what kind of person he wants to be. If you really care for him leave him alone, at least for now. You will be able to tell if he's changed enough to have a relationship with. He sounds fickle. |
I made my TFS layout using Pimp-My-Profile.com |
My baby's daddy!!!
September 01, 2006 @ 04:07:32 am
