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Should I????
December 26, 2006 @ 02:10:52 am

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years now it has been wonderful. I care about him a lot. He is like air in my lungs. I love him to death. Recently we have been growing apart, and it makes me worrie. I dont know what to do!! Another problem is that there is a small chance that I may be pregnant. I know that there was a small slip up, but I dont know how to tell him. I know that he loves me and I know that he cares but the question is how. How do I know that he will be around? How do I know that he will believe me? I know that I do have to figure out if I am or not, but I wonder how he will feel. So I dont know what!! What should I do, should I tell him that there is a small chance or should I wait to tell him?

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garfunkel

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December 26, 2006 @ 02:15:48 am

Go to a GP and get confirmation whether you are pregnant or not. i'd tell him once I knew what was happening personally, I wouldn't want to worry or create a fuss so to speak if it was a false alarm.

If he loves you, he'll be there for you

svierge

December 26, 2006 @ 03:22:50 am

No no no, NOT a good idea. The only way that I would drop that kind of bombshell on the guy unless I was absolutely 100 percent sure of the pregnancy.

You aren't planning to just screw with his head with the news of a possible pregnancy are you? I say this because first you mention that you worry that you might be growing apart. Then you mention that you're seriously thinking about hitting him with the news that you MIGHT be pregnant. I would almost guess that you might be testing him? Or trying to scare him into caring more for you?

Hearing that your girlfriend might be pregnant is very scary, shocking news. You could scare him off permanently with this sort of revelation, if he has second thoughts about your relationship. You'd better be very very sure that you ARE pregnant first. Otherwise, you're just messing with his head, unless you are really worried and scared yourself. You're better off buying a pregnancy test kit; find out for sure FIRST. Take a girlfriend or someone else along if you need some emotional support.

If you aren't pregnant, you might think seriously about a good, reliable form of birth control. Kids are very very expensive! Believe me, I have SIX of them, so I know what I'm talking about. Being seventeen and starting a family would be the scariest thing I could think of doing to myself. And it would be a great way to run off a boyfriend who not be seriously committed to you.

nathan_girl

December 26, 2006 @ 03:31:23 am

i think you should find out if your really pregnant before you tell him, if you really love him you don't want to scare him away. you might think that your growing apart, maybe he's trying to get some space to think about your relationship with him, hey you never know. so make the right choice.

el_diablo

December 26, 2006 @ 03:42:21 am

I would want to know right away if it was me.

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