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The Musician dude that i'm liking. I met him thru a co-worker. The two are in a band together. He asked me if his friend knew about me n him. I said No. He said he didn't want him knowing his business. Now at first I was cool. Because I don't like nobody knowin my business either. But then it started to irk me, Y would he want me keep this private, if we decide to get serious, isn't his friend eventually goin to find out? I don't mind keepin our interest in each other on the DL, but I don't know what the big deal is. I'm still keepin it private, but it irks me. Some of my friends gavce their opinions about it, maybe he's just a private person or maybe he gets around with groupies and my co-worker knows that, What do you guys think? I'm tryin to avoid getting into any drama. | |
Lili
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| Yeah, that's a tricky one because it's like, is he just being private, or is he hiding stuff. It's a fuzzy line. |
cat_eyes
| Or like, is he married?
I don't like it either, you shouldn't have to hide s***! |
mixieloca
| Yep, i have this crazy physical attraction towards him, but i'm wondering what he has to hide.There's many thingz that r still anonymous to me.So i'm going to back up off them. |
sergioreprezente
| i think you should play fair with him, tell him that is behaviour is kind of weird and ask him what he really expect of your relationship!! when a guy is in love with a girl the first thing he do " he tell it to all of is friends" you have to talk to him if you want to know what really happen !!! you often find the answers of your questions when you just ask! |
Lili
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| @sergioreprezente Said
i think you should play fair with him, tell him that is behaviour is kind of weird and ask him what he really expect of your relationship!! when a guy is in love with a girl the first thing he do " he tell it to all of is friends" you have to talk to him if you want to know what really happen !!! you often find the answers of your questions when you just ask!
That's a good point. It's kind of like that book, "He's just not that into you." Women need to know how a guy acts when he's really into a girl vs how he acts when he's not. |
sergioreprezente
| i mean : by my point of view of man if their is a misunderstanding between me and my girlfriend i would appreciate she talk to me instead of spy on what i'm doing, beleive me when their's a problem in your couple it's better to communicate because he's friends won't tell you the truth if he is cheating you!!! so if you ask the good questions you will know anyway!! |
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