"how do you make lemonade if life gives you apples?"  melissarae
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melissarae
| @peanut Said You should be really careful then. Not only are you doing this with your boyfriend (whom to me sounds like he's using you-but I don't know him), but with your possible roomie? In my opinion it's too early, and you don't sound 100% ready. You HAVE to be 100% ready. Otherwise it's going to cause problems. Be careful, and make sure he hasn't hidden a camera somewhere.
there is definitely no hidden camera. my friend that were doing it with is house sitting for her boss and were doing it there. |
unoaman
| @melissarae Said i do love him, and he said he likes me alot. whatever that means.
"Likes you a lot? Hell I like you a lot too, but a twosome will work fine for me...
Likes me a lot...........Geesus! |
el_diablo
| | Just be careful and make sure you think this through. There's no reason to rush into it. You can always do it another time. |
newwealth
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johnny's right .. this guy is bad news .. and you are headed for heartbreak or worse. |
eemboz
| ".. this guy is bad news .."
You should try first!  |
jonnythan
Bringer of rad mirth
| @eemboz Said ".. this guy is bad news .."
You should try first!
There's nothing inherently wrong with threesomes, despite the fact that they are fraught with relationship-destroying power. The problem is that this guy has been sleeping with this girl for only two weeks and he's already bringing other chicks into the bedroom.
That does not bode well at all for the future of this relationship or the character of said guy. |
pink23
| Dont have a threesome if you feel like your not ready. And it may be his fantasy but it's seriously up to you. My boyfriend wants me to have a threesome but I dunno if im oky with it. I really dont wanna see my man screwing another chick just the thought of it makes my stomach turn. I dunno if I would wanna go through with palying around with a chick . Do what you wanna do hell you dont even have to do it. |
justinswife
| hmm, well i have a story to tell, one of my boyfriend before always told me things like he wanted me to have sex with other guys and to cheat on him, becuase it would turn him on, before we got sexual he wanted to have a triangle, like bring another girl intou our relationship, he always told me he wanted me to be very extreamly sexual with other people, and if i said i wasnt comfertable, he would throw a fit, and this was all over the phone, i ended up doing whatever he told me to, i basically worshiped him, if he told me to do something, if i wanted to or not, i would have to do it, becuase i didnt want to loose him, and this sound so silly, but i was in love with him, and he wasnt always like this, there were old memories that held me back from leaving him, well we never got a three sum in the end, never got a love triangle because he saw it my way and finially understood.
so sweetie, be careful, its your feelings that matter, why wouldnt he be satisfied with haveing you all to himself?
does he really need another girl to give him the same thing you give him?  |
xohxthexironyx
| | Don't do it if you're not comfortable. And a note:: Sometimes you get feelings of resentment afterwards. I know I'd NEVER let another woman touch my man. |
sweetrnsugar77
| If you dont want him to have sex with her just tell him. If you get turned on by girl on girl then try it but tell him he can watch the girls or be with you.
HOWEVER...after reading that you are going to be trying to live with her....UM NO. I think its a bad idea. First if it goes bad you have 1 less roomate and second if it goes ok and he comes over to your place he is ALWAYS going to be in a place of tempation to be with her. You will NOT be able to trust them alone. |
spaced_monkey
| I think I must be one of the only guys in the world who doesnt find the idea of a threesome attractive. I want my girl... I want her all to myself and I dont want any other guy or gal to get his hands on her!
Basically what I am trying to say melissarae is be careful. Do what you do because its what you want not what some guy is after. Ask yourself why only 2 weeks into a relationship he is asking you to do this. |
the_prowler
| @spaced_monkey Said I think I must be one of the only guys in the world who doesnt find the idea of a threesome attractive. I want my girl... I want her all to myself and I dont want any other guy or gal to get his hands on her!
Basically what I am trying to say melissarae is be careful. Do what you do because its what you want not what some guy is after. Ask yourself why only 2 weeks into a relationship he is asking you to do this.
Good post Monkey,
Your not the only guy who thinks that.
Be carefull, sounds dodgey to me, after only 2 weeks!!!  |
a_beautiful_lie
| I had a threesome with a couple once..it was kinda funny because now whenever i go over there its more less because she wants it...  ..and the whole you dont know if youll be comfy with the girl...its easy ... |
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July 17, 2006 @ 07:20:02 pm
