"how do you make lemonade if life gives you apples?"  melissarae
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treebee
Government Hooker
 Moderator | Well if you really want to, then go ahead, its your life and your body, but please be doing this because you "want" to and not because he wants you to.
The girl on girl thing is a very common fantasy and it may work out, it may not.
Please promise me one thing. If you hate it, if you dont wanna go through with it, you want them to stop then you say so loud and clear and bollocks to them if they get s***ty with you about it. You CAN change your mind at any time.
Please dont let him film you.
Please be careful.
Thing is if you are truly comfortable with this, you will never regret it. If you are not comfortable then it may have repercussions on you later on.
Also have you considered that you may have to witness your b/f f***ing this other girl? It can happen in the heat of the moment. |
deadguy
| @treebee Said Also have you considered that you may have to witness your b/f f***ing this other girl? It can happen in the heat of the moment.
this is pretty interesting, i mean why don't people feel jealous when they do a 3some with their partner ? |
melissarae
| | i know that they will have sex. and that is one of the things that is making me unsure about doing it. i will not let him film this. he had asked one time to film us but i don't think he will be asking for a long time again. i think i made it clear to him that im not interested in having any of that. i have considered meeting with her first, not telling him, and trying a couple things to see if this is really what i want or just what he wants. |
melissarae
| @treebee Said Good idea  See if it works or not first And im glad you wont let him film it. If you had been with him a long time and knew he was committed to you then it would be different, but this early on its way too dodgy! 
yeah i know a little better than that...unfortunately most lessons learned are learned the hard way. i think the hardest things about tonight is if he wants to have sex with her, and the fact that he wants us to go down on each other. im not sure i can do that. i mean i have always thought about it, but not actually sure when the time comes that i will be able to. i think im gonna drink a little before hand so i can loosen up and be more comfortable. |
markfox01
innit!
| Ive got one.. if you do this then next time it has to be 2 guys and a girl....  |
melissarae
| @markfox01 Said Ive got one.. if you do this then next time it has to be 2 guys and a girl....
see i wouldnt' want to do it with 2 guys. nothing personal or anything but i don't like guy on guy or anything. and i wouldn't wnat the pressure of keeping 2 satisfied. |
melissarae
| | im just worried that things will be awkward between us or things could be really great and everyone will want to do it again. who knows? but i dont want things to end up awkward, seeing as i am hopefully going to be getting a place with her soon. |
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July 17, 2006 @ 06:09:53 pm
but then you wouldnt share Doug with me, it would be a pure scissor fight for us peanut 
