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heart nearly stopped today...
April 25, 2008 @ 04:56:04 pm
today i got some some relly weird news that i totally wasnt expecting.

someone who i thought didnt know anything about me has just tried to get into contact with me, i dont know what to say or do

ok adding to this to get some advice

my 'real' dad left when i was just one year old, and ive never seen him since. my mum doesnt talk about him, or like talking about him for that matter, i dont know any of the details of why he left.

today i found out he is on another friend forum site, and has been sending my sister messages asking how we are getting on and stuff and if we'd like to meet up with him.

ive had no conatct at all with him as yet but i feel weird! i cant explain why

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mymomsaysimacatch

New Post! April 25, 2008 @ 04:58:14 pm
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Well that is sort of a vague explination so I don't know what advice to give.


helennash

New Post! April 25, 2008 @ 06:46:38 pm
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Did your sister tell you that your dad was looking for a meeting? Im sorry I couldnt advise you one way or the other but things may turn out for the best in the end I wish I had the confidence to advise you but all I can say Is wait and see i wish you all the best


lily

New Post! April 25, 2008 @ 07:08:07 pm
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thanks helen yeah she did tell me, and she showed me the message too. we were both sitting here blubbing like a couple of kids lol

i just need advice on the first time we meet him, is there things that we should-shouldnt say, dont want him to think were weirdos and never sees us again lol

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