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Bras?lia, Brazil
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Not me. LoL. My sister. She met a guy two months ago. Now's she's moved with him to Idaho (1700 miles away from home) and tells me she's pregnant. 
And they guy... a moran. I've chatted with him a little and all I can say is I'm completely unimpressed. My poor stupid sister.  | |
markfox01
innit!
| Problem is.. its her choice to do this... and you must support her. because she will need you one day..  |
lea_doll
| | Yeah, I know. The guy was totally hitting on me the other night. But I don't think its my place to say anything to my sis. Right? |
iliterate_enginere
| | Well, you do need to make sure she knows what kind of guy she is and tell her about it. And if he's ok with it, then support her. |
treacle
| You gotta let her make her own decisions as im sure you have in the past. All part of being a sister is supporting them, regardless of your feelings and be there to pick up the pieces.
All you can do in the mean time is pray it doesnt need the pieces picking up.
On the good side, your going to be an aunty and thats great. Enjoy it! |
lea_doll
| The problem is my sis is on the rebound from another guy. Three year relationship that ended a week before she met this new guy. She says she loves him and that "he's so sweet!" But every guy is sweet in the first months and her previous guy was an a*****e so I think any guy would look like a saint to her now.
What gets me is I think she got pregnant on purpose.
Still, what can I do? I'm in Brasil and she's too stubborn and naive to listen to me. I won't say anything. I just wish I could be there to support her when it all goes down the toilet.
I'm excited about being a aunt though! I just hope the little thing doesn't turn out like his moranic father. |
bmobsessed27
| | Like everyone else has said, she needs to do what she thinks is best. Being pregnant so early in a relationship after ending a long relationship is probably hard for her even if she claims to love the guy. You can't tell anyone what to do, even if your her sister and she knows you're only looking out for her. Just be there when you can, give advice if she asks and support her in her decisions. I have a feeling she will need you now more then ever. |
treacle
| @lea_doll Said The problem is my sis is on the rebound from another guy. Three year relationship that ended a week before she met this new guy. She says she loves him and that "he's so sweet!" But every guy is sweet in the first months and her previous guy was an a*****e so I think any guy would look like a saint to her now.
What gets me is I think she got pregnant on purpose.
Still, what can I do? I'm in Brasil and she's too stubborn and naive to listen to me. I won't say anything. I just wish I could be there to support her when it all goes down the toilet.
I'm excited about being a aunt though! I just hope the little thing doesn't turn out like his moranic father.
yes it sounds like she is doing this for all the wrong reasons, but if shes as stubborn as you say, by you interferring, she may take that the wrong way, and accuse you of not being supportive (its happened to me). IF she is doing this for the wrong reasons, it wont last, and you hope she will have learnt her lesson, but as said before, its not for you to tell her. We all have to make our own mistakes, however big.
Is it worth risking a falling out? i think not, especially as shes pregnant, she will want your support. Its going to be a hard time for her. And every girl needs their sister when pregnant. |
dlsharp
| | Congrats, Aunt. I'm going to be a grandfather in about 7 months. I'm not too crazy about my daughter-in-law either, but it's his life and I'll be there if he needs me and so should you. I know that you'll do what you can do. Let her live her life. Stupidity can't be made illegal. |
mesmereyes
| You wouldnt want your Sister making your choices. Or judging them
Sometimes what we feel is not the right decisions, work for others,
just be there as a sister |
hallucinogenic_lipstick
Cocksocket.
| Aww thats a shame but nothing you can really do except be there for her.
Awful thing is she may realise her blokes an idiot soon and then have massive regrets..thats when the s*** is gonna hit the fan.
Just be supportive, hard enough being pregnant without added stress
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January 15, 2008 @ 02:23:59 pm
