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Another rant about people who I don't like
December 19, 2012 @ 09:05:05 am
**I know I rant a LOT on TFS, and I apologize for being so negative most of the time. It's just that this is the only place I actually feel safe posting this stuff because no one I know uses it. Trust me, I'm usually much more positive and less b****y.

I hate that every year, in at least one of my classes, there's that one guy who bothers me so much I can't perform as well as I could. This is my last year of high school. I should be enjoying every minute of it, but this kid is driving me insane! Every freaking day he bothers me while I'm working to repeat an old meme or joke everyone's already seen before online. He burps in the middle of class because he thinks it's funny when it's really just gross. He thinks he's so much smarter than me when he wouldn't even be passing the class without his tutor spoon-feeding everything to him after school. In fact, even with the help of his tutor, his grades aren't much better than mine! But for some strange reason, he always treats me like I'm retarded. He hovers over my desk when there's free time and I'm trying to get homework done so he can stare at what I'm doing. He says he wants to help but it's just annoying. He makes me feel uncomfortable and unable to concentrate when he breathes over my shoulder, so when I politely ask him to not do that, he steps back two inches and says, "I'm not hovering over you. I'm just seeing if you need help" and then continues to stare at my papers. Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't standing over my desk and making me uncomfortable to the point where I can't work the complete opposite of "helping" me?

Another thing that pisses me off so bad about him is that when I brought a bag of gifts for my friends to school, he stared into the bag expectantly (I didn't get anything for him). It was pretty obvious he wanted something from me, so I told him I'd give him something tomorrow because I couldn't bring everything that day, which satisfied him. So that night I made a little goody-bag with some candy (I know, I'm too passive). When I gave him that bag during class, he dumped everything out on his desk while we were supposed to be studying for finals, organized them, and proceeded to eat every single piece of candy. In my head I was thinking, "dude you don't need to eat all of them now" but it gave me an opportunity to actually work so I chose to leave him be. Then I saw him put a piece of candy in his mouth for about a second and then spit it back out into the bag. That kinda pissed me off but I still didn't say anything. However, what happened a few minutes later made me want to slap him. Thank goodness for self-control!

The drama department at my school sells grams during holiday seasons. The grams come with a card and some sort of treat. For example, the Halloween grams came with a photo of the drama teacher's dog dressed up (it's become the mascot of the drama department) and a lollipop. For Christmas, it was a card with small candy-canes attached to it. The grams get passed out to the receivers during fourth period.

I have class with said annoying kid fourth period. When I received a gram, he got excited when he saw the candy canes and started making the "gimme some" hand motions at me saying, "oh my god candy canes! I want some!" b**** I JUST GAVE YOU A WHOLE BAG OF CANDY. There were some peppermint drops in there, too! They're the same freaking thing, just different shapes, and you ATE THEM! When I told him, "Didn't I just give you a bag of candy?" he says, "Yeah, but I didn't get any candy canes". That made me want to punch him...I'm not a stingy person, and if it was anyone else in a different situation I would have happily shared. It's just candy I could buy in bulk for a dollar at CVS. However, he pissed me off so bad I didn't say anything for the rest of class and put it away. I try to be nice to everyone, no matter how badly they make me angry, but I have my limits.

I would switch seats to get away from him but I already did that earlier in the year (didn't go far enough). Plus, the class is pretty full so the only available seats are near the back, and I have trouble seeing the board if I sit too far. I hint to him that I don't want to talk to him but he doesn't get it, no matter how obvious it is! At first I didn't want to go off to college because I don't want to leave my friends (I've known most of my friends since elementary school and we're really close) but he makes me more and more excited to leave high school every day.

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EoWyN

Lucky Me!

New Post! December 19, 2012 @ 09:45:23 am
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Sounds like this kid has some real issues,From the way you describe him it sounds like to me that he has some mental problems and cannot understand what you are saying or what you mean when you speak to him. I did go to school with a person like him. In my case it was a girl.She acted the same way as this fellow and she was so hard to deal with she made my high school years horrible.I myself cannot be mean to some one so I put up with it and dealt with her the best way I could. She acted like a child so I treated her like one. When she was out of line I put her back into it.When she threw a tantrum I ignored it.All you need to do is the same. Ignore him as hard as it is act like he is not even there.Pretend you don't see him or hear him.He will get tired and bug some one else.Unless you want to work with him.Dig deep and see whats going on with him.Home life...Friends...Talk to him and ask him if there is some thing going on in his life.Don't accuse just simply ask.Either way hon I hope it works out for you and these last few months get better!


iamachicken

New Post! December 19, 2012 @ 09:55:42 am
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@EoWyN Said

Sounds like this kid has some real issues,From the way you describe him it sounds like to me that he has some mental problems and cannot understand what you are saying or what you mean when you speak to him. I did go to school with a person like him. In my case it was a girl.She acted the same way as this fellow and she was so hard to deal with she made my high school years horrible.I myself cannot be mean to some one so I put up with it and dealt with her the best way I could. She acted like a child so I treated her like one. When she was out of line I put her back into it.When she threw a tantrum I ignored it.All you need to do is the same. Ignore him as hard as it is act like he is not even there.Pretend you don't see him or hear him.He will get tired and bug some one else.Unless you want to work with him.Dig deep and see whats going on with him.Home life...Friends...Talk to him and ask him if there is some thing going on in his life.Don't accuse just simply ask.Either way hon I hope it works out for you and these last few months get better!


I'm so glad I'm not the only one dealing with such a person. I'll try ignoring him. Whenever I try to work with him he just belittles me and doesn't let me do anything anyway. Your reply made me feel so much better. Thanks.


EoWyN

Lucky Me!

New Post! December 19, 2012 @ 09:59:49 am
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You're welcome dear! Let me know if I can help any further


boobagins

SPICY HOT TAMALES

New Post! December 19, 2012 @ 02:44:32 pm
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Mental problems? That's quite a lot to get off that small blub she wrote.

It sounds like the boy likes you.


futilevoice

New Post! December 19, 2012 @ 02:55:27 pm
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I agree. He is young and silly and probably just wants your attention. Casually mention that you have a boyfriend and maybe he will leave you alone.


Dark_Tink

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New Post! December 19, 2012 @ 03:01:27 pm
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@boobagins Said

Mental problems? That's quite a lot to get off that small blub she wrote.

It sounds like the boy likes you.


Exactly!

That was my first thought as well. He's at the age where guys seems to be able to 'put on the charm' or act weird and annoying when around a girl they like.


iamachicken

New Post! December 20, 2012 @ 03:32:01 am
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@boobagins Said

Mental problems? That's quite a lot to get off that small blub she wrote.

It sounds like the boy likes you.



Oh geeze if that's true I'm jumping out a window -_- Anyway, he's told several times (as if to rub it in my face) that he has a girlfriend so I'm just going to try and believe him.


iamachicken

New Post! December 20, 2012 @ 03:32:53 am
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@Dark_Tink Said

Exactly!

That was my first thought as well. He's at the age where guys seems to be able to 'put on the charm' or act weird and annoying when around a girl they like.



It isn't just me, though. He has a reputation at my school for being annoying and condescending. :/


boobagins

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New Post! December 20, 2012 @ 03:33:50 am
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@iamachicken Said

Oh geeze if that's true I'm jumping out a window -_- Anyway, he's told several times (as if to rub it in my face) that he has a girlfriend so I'm just going to try and believe him.



Yep he likes you. He's trying to make you jealous with that comment.

Is he cute?


iamachicken

New Post! December 20, 2012 @ 04:17:27 am
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@boobagins Said

Yep he likes you. He's trying to make you jealous with that comment.

Is he cute?



To be honest he is the fugliest human being I have ever met... ._.


offbeat

New Post! December 20, 2012 @ 10:38:35 am
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he is attracted to you and he is trying to get your attention ...he is just behaving like any dumb love struck guy , if the captain of the school football team (or a guy you think cute) was doing the same you might like it .... you said that you hint to him that you don't want his attention ... then you say it was obvious ... i have to ask ...when was a hint ever obvious? ... you're going to have to make it obvious that you don't like his attention before he makes a complete fool of himself ...at the moment you are inadvertantly giving him mixed messages ... you must make it obvious .


iamachicken

New Post! December 21, 2012 @ 01:42:34 am
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@offbeat Said

he is attracted to you and he is trying to get your attention ...he is just behaving like any dumb love struck guy , if the captain of the school football team (or a guy you think cute) was doing the same you might like it .... you said that you hint to him that you don't want his attention ... then you say it was obvious ... i have to ask ...when was a hint ever obvious? ... you're going to have to make it obvious that you don't like his attention before he makes a complete fool of himself ...at the moment you are inadvertantly giving him mixed messages ... you must make it obvious .



I don't think I would find randomly belching during class cute at all no matter who does it...And I highly doubt he's into me if he's like this around other girls as well. Trust me, hints can be very obvious sometimes. I'm not a very straightforward person; I'm actually very cowardly, so I have trouble being blunt about stuff. I'm going to try next time I see him though.

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