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My frickin sister and her lies
August 17, 2009 @ 03:37:08 am

Okay, this might be long. I'm not sure yet, I'm just gonna type from somewhat the beginning to try to make this understandable.
So my sister knew this girl who nobody in my family really cared for. They were like best friends all through high school and after. This girl also knew this other girl that my sister met. My sister and this new girl hit it off and ditched the first friend. stopped calling, never wanted to see her again. Whatever. Anyway, this new girl who I will just call Girl has been at my sisters house all the time. My sister lives with my mother and my mother's roommate, in a big house. Now, since nobody liked the first girl, my sister didn't wanna just start inviting some girl over that she met through her first friend. So she lied. I didn't know this until later. Concentrate.
My sister and I knew these 2 girls when we were growing up. Sisters who were exactly our ages. So i clicked with the one my age, and Deanna the one with hers, Rosemary. We haven't seen them in years, though. Went to different high schools, just grew apart. So when my sister started bringing Girl over(mostly to smoke weed and eat), my mother and her roommate were a little bothered. Who is this strange girl making noise with Deanna at all hours? Deanna told my mother and her roommate, this is Rosemary! Remember Rosemary? Of course, my mother said. My mother knew Rosemary very well-years ago. Girl actually resembled Rosemary, but not in a way you could mistake the 2. But my mother was convinced, this was Rosemary! Did I catch you up?
Okay, so this has been going on for a while now. Maybe about 6-8 months or so. Lately, my mom's roommate has been getting complaints about Deanna and Rosemary making noises late at night, and neighbors are smelling something(weed). So my mom was telling me she always remembered Rosemary as being this nice quiet girl. THIS Rosemary always looks mad, has an attitude, and is different. So yesterday I was talking to my mother and she was talking about Rosemary saying those things and she said when she asks Rosemary about her sister, she never says much and acts strange. I thought it was time my mother knew who has really been in her house. It isn't fair for them to by playing with my mother's head about who this girl is that's really causing all this racket at night. It's her house and she shouldn't be disrespected or lied to. So I told my mom the truth about Girl. She is not Rosemary. She is someone else that Deanna met through her ex friend. My mother was in shock! Without telling me, she confronted Deanna and Deanna was furious with me, naturally. She then confronted me about it and I did not lie. I said, "Yes, I told her. She's asking me questions and telling me she is bothered by it. And I involuntarily got placed in this little lie of yours. I don't like lying about this. Mom deserves to know the truth. Next time you want to lie about something like this, don't include me in it." She stormed off and left the house. She came back a few hours later with Girl. They didn't say anything to me or my mother. Just walked in looking mad. Girl walked right past my mother and didn't say a word, different from her usually walking in and hugging my mother and conversing with her. The least she could have done was apologize for lying and making her out to be a fool. But no. My sister just goes in my moms room and yells about me telling her, still not even realizing how she made my mother feel after finding out about her lie. She is so selfish. Maybe it wasn't my place to tell my mother, but quite frankly, I don't care. I tried to get my sister to tell the truth and she never budged. She said it's going perfect, don't ruin it. I don't know about any of you, but I would be really upset if I were my mother, and she is! Even more upset because nobody apologized. Deanna is just mad she was caught and thinks complaining about me will distract the lie. She is only adding to it. Now I'm sure she isn't going to talk to me for a while. But I really don't give a damn. My mom had a right to know. Whether or not it should have been me to say something, she's still happy to know the truth, and can really see how sneaky my sister can be. I felt like a b**** at first for "ratting" on her, but Deann needs to grow up. She's 19 years old, spends ALL of her money on weed and just gives my mother lip every day. It's ridiculous. I'm sick of her attitude. She needs to take some responsibility for herself and stop acting like a little kid. Hopefully my mother will finally have some backbone and not give in to all her s*** anymore.

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friendlybear

New Post! August 17, 2009 @ 03:46:58 am
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Eva, I agree with you, that your mom should not have been lied to about who is in her home. I think you did the right thing by coming clean when she asked you. But I can't help but wonder, why your sister felt the need to lie. After all, she is an adult and has the right to choose her own friends now, even though she still lives at home. Is it possible that she knew your mother would disapprove of her choice in the first place?

Randy


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New Post! August 17, 2009 @ 03:51:41 am
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Good for you, I think you were right in letting your Mom know.

Sounds like your sister needed to be ratted out on, she sounds out of control and immature. Maybe when she gets older she'll look back on what you did with respect, if she doesn't get over it, she isn't worth your time, your too wonderful to waste your life on brats like that.

I know she's your sister, but wow.


Again, good for you, don't question your actions at all.


LaLaMissMandy

New Post! August 17, 2009 @ 03:58:15 am
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Sounds like you did the right thing. Your sister will probably hold a grudge but I am sure deep down she knows that she was wrong, and hopefully she will apologize to you and your mom in the near future. As for the friend, she just sounds down right shady... I would tell your sister that she is bunk and needs to go!


evababy1

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New Post! August 17, 2009 @ 04:04:03 am
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This friend certainly is not a good one! She definitely needs to go! That's exactly why my sister didn't tell the truth. This friend is just like Deanna; lazy, disrespectful, and a pothead. I am not against pot in any way, but use it in moderation. My sister often can't pay her share of the rent and bills because as soon as she gets paid she gets weed to last her until the next paycheck. She knew my mother wouldn't approve of this girl. God, she needs to grow up. And thanks for understanding, guys. I didn't know if I'd be perceived as a b**** or not for telling.


DuLu

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New Post! August 17, 2009 @ 05:02:20 am
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I agree with everyone else. As far as I can see, you did the right thing. The things kids do right under their parent's noses is
unbelievable. It is the way it is. Geez. Fine go ahead,
dig your own holes, but don't put me in with you. That "girl" needs to find somewhere else to spend her time. Too many parents let their kids run roughshod over them. I thank God that my parents raised all of us such a way that we valued ourselves, and became independent as soon as it was at all possible. Sounds like you have
the good sense to make tough decisions when necessary.

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