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On February 08, 2019 darkangel28


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cole

New Post! April 12, 2018 @ 09:34:34 am
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I always believe they Exs are that for a reason. I'm also more of a "never make the same mistake twice kinda guy" I know that isn't always easy to follow and god knows I haven't always followed my own advice but like another cliched piece of info is what's for you, won't go by you.

Perhaps spend time widening your social circle, take up and new hobby/club/education course. Maybe this will help put some distance between you and your ex.

Or just bite the bullet and get back together with him. Life is short....

Good luck x


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New Post! April 12, 2018 @ 10:25:05 pm
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Well we broke up 10 years ago and I tried moving on from him but nothing ever stuck most of the guys that are even interested in me just want sex or are head cases and liars and crazy stalkers and my worst fear is ending up with someone worst than my ex like some abusive a*****e but what attracted me to him in the first place is he wasn't like the other guys I have been with he never gave up on us even we broke up the first time he still worshiped me and refused to give up on me and he was always there to listen to my problems about everything until I mistakenly hooked up with his best friend but even after me and his friend broke up and I found out he was cheating on me with his ex girlfriend I was a mess and he was there for me for the next 3 years and I was going through a lot back then full on drama at home but then the other day I had this dream it was weird cuz I saw a note and it said u don't need to feel guilty and Mike and i woke up and I was like that's weird


cole

New Post! April 13, 2018 @ 04:43:07 pm
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Ouch the sleeping with his best mate is never a good idea, even after a relationship is done. TBF though i'd be more pissed at my so called best mate.

Live your life, if it happens then it's happens for a reason, at the time it's meant to happen. We have a knack as humans of rushing things, forcing things to happen rather than just letting things play out naturally.


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New Post! April 13, 2018 @ 09:34:26 pm
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@cole Said

Ouch the sleeping with his best mate is never a good idea, even after a relationship is done. TBF though i'd be more pissed at my so called best mate.

Live your life, if it happens then it's happens for a reason, at the time it's meant to happen. We have a knack as humans of rushing things, forcing things to happen rather than just letting things play out naturally.

Ya their relationship was done after that I guess his friend had a thing for sleeping around with his girlfriend's and his previous girlfriend had cheated on him with his best friend and he tried hooking up with me while I was still with him but I wouldn't go for it I don't believe in cheating I think it's wrong and so I have always felt kind of responsible for breaking up their friendship cuz I guess he made my ex believe that we got together right after we broke up he made it sound like I left him for him which isn't true I didn't get with his friend til 4 months after we broke up but because he got upset when me and him got together he was really in love with me when he told him that he was with me I was there and I could hear him screaming at him through the phone


cole

New Post! April 14, 2018 @ 07:43:58 pm
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Yes this sounds complicated. What ever happened to boy meets girl, they fall in love, they live happily ever after with 15 kids, 2 dogs, a cat and a hamster? Man the simple things in life.....

You have 2 choices, go on without him, spending the rest of your life wondering, what if?

Or getting back together and knowing what if, yeah ok it might be s*** but least you'd know. On the flip side, it might be awesome. Again you would know.

It's the not knowing that would annoy me, personally more.


puzZles

New Post! April 16, 2018 @ 07:09:29 am
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First of all the Universe doesn't care one way or another if you get back together. And even if it did the fact is it was you who added him on messenger. Not the universe.
You are still pining for him. That's why all the hate for him for so long. And why he has this power over you.
And still you hold out hope that it may work between you (because you want it to), and maybe just maybe this time around he won't cheat on you. But we know, not only will he do it again, but he's cheating on his wife, too. (and not for nothing but, he IS married, yanno? ) He will cheat on every woman he's with. The pattern is there and there will be no exceptions.

It's your life and you will do what you want to do. But I foresee serious hurt, pain, and anger coming your way, when once again, he screws you over. (no pun intended)
Only this time around you will hate him and you will hurt, twice as badly over him. Because you will be angry with your self, for giving him the opportunity to do it to you again. That you showed him how much you still care and even when it doesn't work out again he will then know you care, (even though he used you) even if you try to pretend you don't care.
You're going to teach him that it's okay to treat you like crap, that, not only will you take it, but you'll take him back and let him do it to you again. Then the cycle will just repeat itself, over and over again...
Yep I know this because I was such a fool, once upon a time.

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