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my mother
January 12, 2007 @ 09:00:45 am
i havent spoken to my mother for over 4 years. avoiding her isnt hard as she lives in cyprus but yesterday i got a letter from her via my sister. in the letter she says that in summer 06 when she was over here she found out were i lived and stood outside my flat for a while debating wether to ring the doorbell. i found this really creepy as a) ive asked my sisters not to tell her where i live so im assuming she got this from one of my nieces or nephew and b) she knows any involvement from her in my life usually results in me ending up in hospital.
so do i make a big fuss to find out who told her where i live? or do i do what i feel like doing and go to cyprus and set fire to her house?
bloody familys.

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jeanettesianrachel

New Post! January 12, 2007 @ 10:03:03 am
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i know how you feel cos i didnt talk to most of my family except my sister,i started talking to my mum again last year after 6 yrs and my brother this summer,just tell the family that you do talk to who talk to your mum that you dont want her near your property and in your life or you will get an injunction against her,some people may say im a nasty person for telling you that,but when you get hurt so bad you dont want them to do it to you again,i know talk to all my family except my dad and every one inc him knows why the next time i see him will be at his funeral and thats just to make sure he is dead, yes this may be un acceptable to most people but im sure your mum hurt you bad enough for you not to want to see her, my dad done the worse thing a man can do to his daughters and my sis who is 43 is still going thru therapy etc and she has been since the age of 15,dont do any thing like going to her house just make it very clear that she gets the message she is not wanted at all in your life and you will take legal action that will stop her trying to talk to you or to get info from the family about you,it can be done cos i done it to my ex hubby,he wasnt allowed near me or to ring my family and friends to ask about me good luck i hope one of your family passes the messages on and that you are left alone


brainfarmer

New Post! January 12, 2007 @ 10:06:57 am
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cheers thanx for that i tend to go completely over the top in my responses when stuff happens.

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