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bellestrange

Coo Coo Kachoo

New Post! July 28, 2008 @ 07:37:29 am
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By the way, the above may make me look like a money grabbing b****, but I assure you I am not. He is legally obliged to ONLY pay $25 per month for BOTH children. Yes that's right, BOTH, not each. And the jerk is trying to get out of it. He will not send me anything, he never did last time he went up there, and that was when we were together. Just wanted to clear that up lol.


twiztidangel

Why So Serious?

New Post! July 28, 2008 @ 07:40:53 am
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pfft. what a d*** i hope your kids didnt get their hopes up if you don't think none of that is going to happen. my dad used to do that to me all the time and it really sucks (saying hes going to spend time (more time) with me etc)


nothinsnew

New Post! July 28, 2008 @ 07:46:32 am
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What a f***ing loser!!!!!

The kids are always the ones that get the bad end of the deal after all is said and done. But I'm sure he knows that - he just doesn't care.

f***ing loser.

You know I think there's a law that says that custodial parents aren't allowed to move interstate (don't quote me on that) and away from the other parent. Typical that it doesn't apply to the "occasional" parent huh?

What a f***ing loser!


bellestrange

Coo Coo Kachoo

New Post! July 28, 2008 @ 07:48:37 am
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@twiztidangel Said
pfft. what a d*** i hope your kids didnt get their hopes up if you don't think none of that is going to happen. my dad used to do that to me all the time and it really sucks (saying hes going to spend time (more time) with me etc)


Yeah, my Dad was a bit like it too. Probably why it f*cks me off so much. Luckily my kids are only little so they still listen to me and I told them that Daddy won't be living at the theme parks etc and they they won't see him much at all. It sucks being the one to tell them the s***ty side of it but I prefer to be honest with them from the start, unlike some people.


nothinsnew

New Post! July 28, 2008 @ 08:06:30 am
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Hmmmm.... cross ur fingers.


MonkeyMadness

Lord of your mum

New Post! July 28, 2008 @ 08:50:40 am
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Oh dear god.
What a f***ing moron.


rider

New Post! July 28, 2008 @ 10:56:35 am
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My ex played up and I was the one to hung out to dry,she took the house half my superanuation and $120 a week for three kids,the only thing she didn't take from me was the skid marks on my undies,and this Bastard pay's,(sorry) should pay $25 for all yours and still can't do that.Good Old Sth Aussie,is this just another of their "So far behind reality Laws???"


bellestrange

Coo Coo Kachoo

New Post! July 28, 2008 @ 11:04:10 am
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@rider Said
My ex played up and I was the one to hung out to dry,she took the house half my superanuation and $120 a week for three kids,the only thing she didn't take from me was the skid marks on my undies,and this Bastard pay's,(sorry) should pay $25 for all yours and still can't do that.Good Old Sth Aussie,is this just another of their "So far behind reality Laws???"


Oh, bugger, sorry you got treated like that. Yeah it seems in trying to make things better for some, they are shafting the rest of us. I would be happy with $20 a week! Let alone $120! Only on a single parent pension and pay almost half of that on my rent, ffs! I'm crossing my fingers they catch him... not because I'm desperate for cash ( I barely noticed he'd missed payments) but because it should be 50/50. NOT Me 98% him 2%.


rider

New Post! July 28, 2008 @ 12:57:25 pm
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I think if you look into it the Divorce laws in this country have changed,I was told the other day it is 50/50 now and there's shared custody of the kids one week about,so you may find you can stop him from leaving the state( but don't quote me on that).
I was absolutely torn apart financially and emotionally,and wouldn't like to go through that again,9 years,3 kids and a mortgage,and found out I had been playing second fiddle for years,that sort of thing does nothing for your self esteem.

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