My husband of two months and I have not been intimate for about a week, not just because I don't feel like it but because I don't feel he deserves it. This morning I told him we could have it off after I took my shower. Normally he would burst through the door the second the water stopped, not this time. After having ample time to lotion up (and pair socks if I felt like it) I found him still sitting at his desk playing computer games. I continued to go on about my business. Even sat on the couch for a moment and watched tv. Then I decided to keep my cut off going I put on some jeans and told him he wasn't getting any today. He told me I was joking and continued to play his computer games, I continued to get dressed and to vehemently show him that I was VERY serious by showing him the dirty looks that mean if he gets any closer I could and might severely harm him. Little did I know that when I am angry he get aroused. Now that he is napping of his lunch and not making me want to karate chop him in the neck I am not so angry with him. Maybe he'll get lucky after all.