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Whats the point of living?
whats the point of loving someone just to see them walk out on you?
whats wrong with all the actions i take?
i dont know what i did and/or do wrong. one day your there and the next your not. How am i sapose to deal with that. How im i sapose to deal with the fact you block all the feelings for me out. I dont know if i can make it any longer. i feel live is coming to a stop and you may be the only person to help me. but your not there and your not coming. Am i the only one in this world that is going though this? | |
Leon
| No, just about everyone gets rejected at one point or another, at many times it is not clear why, so you are not alone. Did you try asking him what you did that made him walk out on you?
And, as hard as it may seem to see it now, it will get better - you'll learn from this and move on to greater things. Hang in there. |
lordcrom
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offbeat
| @TheDew Said  Whats the point of living?
whats the point of loving someone just to see them walk out on you?
whats wrong with all the actions i take?
i dont know what i did and/or do wrong. one day your there and the next your not. How am i sapose to deal with that. How im i sapose to deal with the fact you block all the feelings for me out. I dont know if i can make it any longer. i feel live is coming to a stop and you may be the only person to help me. but your not there and your not coming. Am i the only one in this world that is going though this?
if you believe him to be an honest person ...and if he is still talking to you ...then it'd be worth asking him why he finished with you ... because then you'll have an insight into your faults and irritations (we all carry some)..and then you'll be able to work on those traits so that you will be more succesful in relationships ...there's little point in going through so much emotional pain unless you learn from it .... and , try not to be too down because you'll eventually feel better and be able to move on.  |
Electric_Banana
| @TheDew Said
whats the point of loving someone just to see them walk out on you?
Am i the only one in this world that is going though this?
Nope.
It looks to me like it was intended for us to find steady relationships and keep them.
But as you grow up, as you're doing now, you realize it's very very difficult to find.
That's not to say that you won't find it but it might take quite awhile.
I didn't find anything stable until I was thirty. |
TheDew
| @Electric_Banana Said
Nope.
It looks to me like it was intended for us to find steady relationships and keep them.
But as you grow up, as you're doing now, you realize it's very very difficult to find.
That's not to say that you won't find it but it might take quite awhile.
I didn't find anything stable until I was thirty.
All the relationships last only about a year and he decided that we needed to take a break. Does breaks work out do people get back to gether after breaks??
He was the first to see past my mask and see the real me he didn't run when I told him stuff I never told others before. |
Leon
| @TheDew Said
All the relationships last only about a year and he decided that we needed to take a break. Does breaks work out do people get back to gether after breaks??
He was the first to see past my mask and see the real me he didn't run when I told him stuff I never told others before.
Yeah, that's particularly painful to put your trust in someone like that only to see it shaken by him abandoning you.
To be honest, usually when one needs a break, it's a sign that it will never be, but there is always hope. The best thing you can do now though is take care of yourself and try and move on, as hard as it is. Strangely enough, if the person leaving does decide what he/she is missing, they seem to only come back when the other person does that. |
TheDew
| @Leon Said
Yeah, that's particularly painful to put your trust in someone like that only to see it shaken by him abandoning you.
To be honest, usually when one needs a break, it's a sign that it will never be, but there is always hope. The best thing you can do now though is take care of yourself and try and move on, as hard as it is. Strangely enough, if the person leaving does decide what he/she is missing, they seem to only come back when the other person does that.
Thanks that helped alot. and the funny thing is that my now ex got me to join the forum site. and then he told me that if i wonted to keep on it i couldnt just write journals but writing journals are the only way i can say what is all in my head because it dont make cents to me all the time. and its nice to be able to do this and have other people comment on what i say. because in the long run you all are helpful. soo thanks its also nice to know i can come on here to talk to someone about this |
Electric_Banana
| @TheDew Said
All the relationships last only about a year and he decided that we needed to take a break. Does breaks work out do people get back to gether after breaks??
He was the first to see past my mask and see the real me he didn't run when I told him stuff I never told others before.
There will be a few who you can find who will stay - But they have to have a strong maturity-sense in the area of relationships.
You'll find many people out there who are grown and clever in many different ways but still not developed enough to take a long term commitment seriously.
Often times boys/girls regard other boys/girls like material possessions and give the "It's not you - It's me" or "We argue too much" speech because they met a new car and the smell of your car wore off.
It's not your fault, you just got too closely associated with someone who wasn't responsible enough to consider your emotions and their promise to always be there.
Family is family - If I commit myself to someone it is because I feel they are one of the right one's to marry and just like I would never walk out on a child, I would never walk out on its mother either.
I mean I consider how horribly lost and alone that I would feel right now if my fiancee died on me and because I can comprehend how dreadful that would be, I would never want my fiancee to feel that way and that alone keeps me forever with her no matter what. |
Electric_Banana
| And we've all been hurt just like you have recently.
So you're not alone in experiencing this.
Just be grateful because some people have been left behind after many years of being together and often times in the male's situation, not only does he lose his partner to another man, but if there is a child involved, the child's prime focus will be taken away from him and given to their new father as the former one now also has to adapt to living out of the backseat of his car. |
TheDew
| @Electric_Banana Said
And we've all been hurt just like you have recently.
So you're not alone in experiencing this.
Just be grateful because some people have been left behind after many years of being together and often times in the male's situation, not only does he lose his partner to another man, but if there is a child involved, the child's prime focus will be taken away from him and given to their new father as the former one now also has to adapt to living out of the backseat of his car.
he broke up with me 3 times in two days. has that happened to you? |
Leon
| @TheDew Said
Thanks that helped alot. and the funny thing is that my now ex got me to join the forum site. and then he told me that if i wonted to keep on it i couldnt just write journals but writing journals are the only way i can say what is all in my head because it dont make cents to me all the time. and its nice to be able to do this and have other people comment on what i say. because in the long run you all are helpful. soo thanks its also nice to know i can come on here to talk to someone about this
Glad I could help. Hang in there. |
TheDew
| @Leon Said
Glad I could help. Hang in there.
i will try to hang in there. the hardest part for me is not talking to him. |
Leon
| | Yeah, the whole thing is hard, and there is really no way out of the pain. Only time. It's good you're hanging in there though, and it will get better over time. Talking to other people about it helps. |
TheDew
| @Leon Said
Yeah, the whole thing is hard, and there is really no way out of the pain. Only time. It's good you're hanging in there though, and it will get better over time. Talking to other people about it helps.
yeah and the only way i can talk to someone is journaling on here. |
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whats the point?
April 08, 2013 @ 05:49:47 am
