I dunno about AT the office...I'd do the actual banging elsewhere
I've been involved with women I've worked with and I hear a lot of people say it's a bad idea. I think in the few cases it's happened with me though it was very casual and nothing much was expected to become of it. I don't know how much of a good idea it is to actually become romantically involved with a workmate...like the saying goes, you don't s*** where you eat. It could lead to a lot of problems.
In my case, nothing bad ever became of it. Maybe I was just lucky enough that when it happened it happened with women who weren't vindictive or held grudges when it ended (and I'm not saying that only women act this way...men can be just s***ty).
so it's better to bang our than in. got it. but have you ever wanted to? could it be pretty easy to get away with?