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Sausage Snowman
Dingwall,Scotland, United King
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So lets be cliche as possible just to be even more unlike me.
So there's this girl i like in college, she's really funny, cute and we're friends. However, as you might imagine, a teenage boy in my place will often want to be more than friends, basically, i'm pretty sure im in what internet bro scholars call the "friend zone"
I once sent a message over facebook, telling her i what i thought of her, and explaining i was too scared to ask in real life, but i was met with being ignored, she just pretended it didn't happen at all, to be fair i spent the next day apologising and claiming i was drunk when i wrote that, a complete lie since i not only have never been drunk in my life, i dont even drink at all.
I really do like this girl, i just dont know if we really have enough in common to pursue any kind of relationship, but even still, at the age of eighteen, having never even so much as held a girls hand, i feel somewhat pathetic and perhaps this is why, my stunning lack of confidence in the face of rejection.
Any advice TFS? | |
sTreetAngeL
root tedt ree
| Why on earth would you jump to gun like that, and tell her you didn't mean it that you were really drunk?? Without, in my opinion, giving her a proper chance to respond first?
There could have been any number of reasons why she didn't respond right away..And she very well might have felt strongly towards you in return..
How awful if she did...to just later be shot down like that. |
KulliK357
Sausage Snowman
| @sTreetAngeL Said 
Why on earth would you jump to gun like that, and tell her you didn't mean it that you were really drunk?? Without, in my opinion, giving her a proper chance to respond first?
There could have been any number of reasons why she didn't respond right away..And she very well might have felt strongly towards you in return..
How awful if she did...to just later be shot down like that.
Hey thanks for the advice, ill just build a TARDIS teleport four months into the past and tell myself that the extreme regret i was feeling is all in my head and this is actually a sound plan. |
sister_of_mercy
| | Just keep talking to her and then try and gauge her reactions when you talk together. If you think there's potential then man up and make a move somehow (doesn't have to be a big thing, walk her home or invite her out to a group thing or something). |
sTreetAngeL
root tedt ree
| @KulliK357 Said
Hey thanks for the advice, ill just build a TARDIS teleport four months into the past and tell myself that the extreme regret i was feeling is all in my head and this is actually a sound plan.
Well so what if she wasn't actually interested? Will that stop you from persuing others in the future?
I just don't get why make up a lie to save face later... We all get rejected in life at some point or other...Too much ego there.
Could prove detrimental. |
Delta62
Natural asshole
| I'm not gonna say, you know, there's plenty more fish in the sea. I'm not going to say if you love her, let her go. And I'm not going to bombard you with clichés. But what I will say is this
[chuckling]
It's not the end of the world. |
sAeGeSpAeNe
Part-time Nidologist
| @Delta62 Said
I'm not gonna say, you know, there's plenty more fish in the sea. I'm not going to say if you love her, let her go. And I'm not going to bombard you with clichés. But what I will say is this
[chuckling]
It's not the end of the world.
Kullik already knows about the fish in the sea...
And, yes, there are, indeed, more fish to fry!  |
Delta62
Natural asshole
| @sAeGeSpAeNe Said
Kullik already knows about the fish in the sea...
And, yes, there are, indeed, more fish to fry!
We are going to need some wood and yes we are using you.  |
chisa96
Supreme Goddess
| You're going to have to just suck it up and talk to her. Otherwise there's no hope of anything happening.
And you should. Get out there, man. Even if you get shot down at least you know you've tried, and that first experience of being shot down is the worst, so you'll have that milestone out the way then.
Or maybe she'll turn out to like you, and then you'll have that and it'll be great.
Either way, you're going to have to make that dive or it will just be a big nothing. |
Belcher
| You really just gotta get in there man and take a chance. I got shot down plenty in my lifetime. I would never have told the girl I was just kidding though. What if she thinks to herself oh my god I'm so glad I didnt respond in kind, cos he wasnt serious and I would have just made a big fool of myself. What if she tells her freinds, and they tell theirs?
This kind of s*** can really mess things up for you man. If your still freinds with the girl you should tell her someway that you really did mean it but that your ego got bruised. Her being a girl. she'll prolly be tender about it. |
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February 01, 2012 @ 07:41:13 pm
