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Care Too Much
July 07, 2013 @ 07:17:42 am
Why do I care too much. When it comes to me possibly liking someone or I just end up falling for them, I tend care and sometimes when they notice, they walk all over me. I told myself I wouldn't care about trying to date people, but it's a little hard to not care. My friend is trying to play "matchmaker" with me and a girl I work with. So far he told her I think she's cute and I guess her immediate response was why am I so quiet or why am I so shy at work. It's work. I don't like talking at work sometimes and I'm still new. She's cute and a nice person, but I kind of feel she isn't so into me, but she might be into him. Life sucks.

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Grrrl

New Post! July 07, 2013 @ 12:42:52 pm
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This is going to sound cynical, so I'm sorry, but if the only words you have to describe a girl are "cute" and "nice", I don't think you've fallen for her.


Cpat92

It's all or nothing

New Post! July 07, 2013 @ 04:56:18 pm
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No I haven't fallen for her. I was actually referring to some girls I fell for in the past. I probably had to reword that differently. This girl is someone completely different.


GeneticAnomaly

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New Post! July 07, 2013 @ 05:06:21 pm
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The girl you work with is the girl you work with. She sees you as nothing more than someone she works with.

Be clear, to you, she is not just the girl you work with.


Cpat92

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New Post! July 07, 2013 @ 05:09:31 pm
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To me, I don't know what she besides a girl I work with. My friend's goal is to make her more than that. My goal is to just go M.I.A.


unspokenwords

New Post! July 08, 2013 @ 10:48:19 pm
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Maybe just ask her out yourself girls go for the bold type who know what they want. Sheprobably doesnt believe your friend or thinks its strange cause you hardly talk to her?


Cpat92

It's all or nothing

New Post! July 09, 2013 @ 12:25:58 am
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@unspokenwords Said

Maybe just ask her out yourself girls go for the bold type who know what they want. Sheprobably doesnt believe your friend or thinks its strange cause you hardly talk to her?



I think she thinks I am still timid since I've been in the fleet for 2 months. I don't talk much at work. I try not to talk though. I want to, but she's still on restriction until the 21st. I can try then or ask her out on a date on my B'Day.


unspokenwords

New Post! July 09, 2013 @ 12:42:00 am
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@Cpat92 Said

I think she thinks I am still timid since I've been in the fleet for 2 months. I don't talk much at work. I try not to talk though. I want to, but she's still on restriction until the 21st. I can try then or ask her out on a date on my B'Day.


That's a start..worse she could do is say no


Cpat92

It's all or nothing

New Post! July 09, 2013 @ 01:43:37 am
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That is the worst she can say.


sTreetAngeL

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New Post! July 09, 2013 @ 03:53:12 am
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Or maybe she IS into you - or could see herself being; that is why perhaps she asked your friend why you are so quiet! If she wasn't interested, I don't think she would have made that comment - not after him just telling her you think she is cute especially.

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